According to psychologists, there are four types of intelligence:
1) Intelligence Quotient (IQ)
2) Emotional Quotient (EQ)
3) Social Quotient (SQ)
4) Adversity Quotient (AQ)
1. Intelligence Quotient (IQ): this is the measure of your comprehension ability", solve maths; memorize things and recall subject matters.
2. Emotional Quotient (EQ): this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others; keep to time; be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine and considerate.
3. Social Quotient (SQ):
This is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.
People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go farther in life than those with high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize in improving IQ level while EQ and SQ are played down.
A person of high IQ can end up being employed by another of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ.
Your EQ represents your character; your SQ represents your charisma.
So consciously give in to habits that will improve these three Qs but more especially your EQ and SQ.
EQ and SQ make one manage better than the other.
Pls don't teach children only to have higher IQ , but also to have higher EQ and SQ.
Now there is a 4th one :
A new paradigm
4. The Adversity Quotient (AQ):
The measure of one's ability to go through a rough patch in life and come out without losing the mind.
AQ determines who will give up in face of troubles and may abandon their families.
*To parents & teachers*:
Expose children to other areas of life other than academic. One should adore manual work (never use work as a form of punishment) as also sport or art.
We must develop their EQ, SQ and AQ. We should become multifaceted human beings able to do things independently of the elders.
*Finally* do not prepare the road for the children. Prepare the children for the road.
*SONAL JAIN*
*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*
www.sonaljainvedic.com
Sunday, 14 June 2020
Friday, 5 June 2020
#Future#millipede
*Everything is in your hands*
"A young chap went to a soothsayer to inquire about his future.
The soothsayer drew two circles. One in white and the other in black.
He then put a millipede in between the circles, saying "if the millipede crawls into the white circle, your future will be bright and very great,
but if it crawls into the black circle, then you are finished and doomed!
No future at all!".
As soon as the insect was dropped in between the circles, it began crawling towards the white circle.
This chap was super-excited.
But suddenly, as it got to the edge of the circle, it turned back and began crawling away from the white circle towards the black one.
The boy watched as the insect progressively moved farther away from his desire to his doom.
Then, just when the insect got to the edge of the black circle, this chap stretched his hands, picked it up and quickly but carefully dropped it in the white circle.
The soothsayer was in shock, he had never seen anyone intervene like this.
He annoyingly asked the chap what he did and why he did what he did.
The boy smiled and simply replied by saying "I cannot sit and watch my destiny go down the gloom doom. I will change the course myself while I can still do something about it."
"My destiny is in my hands"
and saying this the young boy got up and left."
You also get the hell up, pick up the damn millipede and drop it where you want.
The power to design and pilot your life is in your hands. You either sit down there, complain and feel someone owes you something or get up and determine the flow of your life. It's up to you.
This is not the time to look for miracles, create your miracles, conjure your own magic.
This too shall pass, take your destiny in your hands and shape it the way you want it.
Stay safe, have a great weekend & stay blessed forever.
*SONAL JAIN*
*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*
www.sonaljainvedic.com
"A young chap went to a soothsayer to inquire about his future.
The soothsayer drew two circles. One in white and the other in black.
He then put a millipede in between the circles, saying "if the millipede crawls into the white circle, your future will be bright and very great,
but if it crawls into the black circle, then you are finished and doomed!
No future at all!".
As soon as the insect was dropped in between the circles, it began crawling towards the white circle.
This chap was super-excited.
But suddenly, as it got to the edge of the circle, it turned back and began crawling away from the white circle towards the black one.
The boy watched as the insect progressively moved farther away from his desire to his doom.
Then, just when the insect got to the edge of the black circle, this chap stretched his hands, picked it up and quickly but carefully dropped it in the white circle.
The soothsayer was in shock, he had never seen anyone intervene like this.
He annoyingly asked the chap what he did and why he did what he did.
The boy smiled and simply replied by saying "I cannot sit and watch my destiny go down the gloom doom. I will change the course myself while I can still do something about it."
"My destiny is in my hands"
and saying this the young boy got up and left."
You also get the hell up, pick up the damn millipede and drop it where you want.
The power to design and pilot your life is in your hands. You either sit down there, complain and feel someone owes you something or get up and determine the flow of your life. It's up to you.
This is not the time to look for miracles, create your miracles, conjure your own magic.
This too shall pass, take your destiny in your hands and shape it the way you want it.
Stay safe, have a great weekend & stay blessed forever.
*SONAL JAIN*
*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*
www.sonaljainvedic.com
Wednesday, 3 June 2020
#gratitude#patience
*Be thankful. Be patient*............... A movie theater announced that an 8-minute movie won the title of Best Short Film in the World ...
So, it was decided to display this movie in the cinema for free, so that the largest crowd could gather to watch it ...
The movie began with a snapshot of a room ceiling that is devoid of any decoration and of any details; Just a white ceiling ...
3 minutes passed without the camera moving and it did not move to any other scene, or any other part of the ceiling in the same room ...
Another 3 minutes passed without the camera moving and without changing the scene ...
After 6 boring minutes, the viewers started grumbling; Some of them were about to leave the theater hall; And some of them objected to the officials of the house because they wasted their time watching a ceiling ...
Suddenly, before the majority became concerned and starting to leave, the camera lens slowly moved on a wall without any details as well until it reached down towards the floor, there a child appeared on a bed, who seems to be totally handicapped due to the spinal cord tare in his little body ...
The camera slowly moved to the side of the handicap bed, showing a wheelchair without a back ...
The camera moved to the boredom location of the ceiling again; To show a sentence: *"We showed you only 8 minutes of this child's daily activity, only 8 minutes from the scene that this handicapped child watches at all hours of his life, and you complained and weren't patient for only six minutes, you couldn't bear to watch it ..!* ...
So know the value of every second of your life that you spend in wellness, and thank your Lord for every blessing bestowed on you, and you will not feel its existence unless you lose it ...
We suffer from quarantine and the curfew, which is, God willing, for a limited time, and we do not know that there are millions who lived their entire lives in quarantine ...
Covid-19 has forced us to have the time to think about many privileges , and we thank God for the blessing of the freedom of movement and out of the house to see life, breathe the air, and practice activity in its various colors ...
Praise be to God for what God has blessed us with of which we have not realized...
*We thank God for the blessings ever and forever* ... *
*SONAL JAIN*
*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*
www.sonaljainvedic.com
So, it was decided to display this movie in the cinema for free, so that the largest crowd could gather to watch it ...
The movie began with a snapshot of a room ceiling that is devoid of any decoration and of any details; Just a white ceiling ...
3 minutes passed without the camera moving and it did not move to any other scene, or any other part of the ceiling in the same room ...
Another 3 minutes passed without the camera moving and without changing the scene ...
After 6 boring minutes, the viewers started grumbling; Some of them were about to leave the theater hall; And some of them objected to the officials of the house because they wasted their time watching a ceiling ...
Suddenly, before the majority became concerned and starting to leave, the camera lens slowly moved on a wall without any details as well until it reached down towards the floor, there a child appeared on a bed, who seems to be totally handicapped due to the spinal cord tare in his little body ...
The camera slowly moved to the side of the handicap bed, showing a wheelchair without a back ...
The camera moved to the boredom location of the ceiling again; To show a sentence: *"We showed you only 8 minutes of this child's daily activity, only 8 minutes from the scene that this handicapped child watches at all hours of his life, and you complained and weren't patient for only six minutes, you couldn't bear to watch it ..!* ...
So know the value of every second of your life that you spend in wellness, and thank your Lord for every blessing bestowed on you, and you will not feel its existence unless you lose it ...
We suffer from quarantine and the curfew, which is, God willing, for a limited time, and we do not know that there are millions who lived their entire lives in quarantine ...
Covid-19 has forced us to have the time to think about many privileges , and we thank God for the blessing of the freedom of movement and out of the house to see life, breathe the air, and practice activity in its various colors ...
Praise be to God for what God has blessed us with of which we have not realized...
*We thank God for the blessings ever and forever* ... *
*SONAL JAIN*
*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*
www.sonaljainvedic.com
Saturday, 30 May 2020
#reflection#friends#family
*A reflection on friends & family groups...*
"A man, who regularly attended meetings with his friends, without any notice stopped participating in his activities.
After a few weeks, one very cold night the leader of that group decided to visit him.
He found the man at home, alone, sitting in front of a fireplace where a bright and cozy fire burned. Guessing the reason for the visit, the man welcomed the leader. There was a great silence.
The two men only watched the dancing flames around the logs that crackled in the fireplace.
After a few minutes the leader, without saying a word, examined the embers that formed and selected one of them, the most incandescent of all, removing it to the side of the brazier with a pair of tongs. Then he sat down again.
The host was paying attention to everything, fascinated but restless. Before long, the lone ember flame subsided, until there was only a momentary glow and the fire suddenly went out.
In a short time, what was a sample of light and heat, was nothing more than a black, cold and dead piece of coal.
Very few words had been spoken since the greeting.
The leader, before preparing to leave, with the pliers returned the cold and useless coal, placing it again in the middle of the fire. Immediately, the ember was rekindled, fueled by the light and heat of the burning coals around him.
When the leader reached the door to leave, the host said: Thank you for your visit and for your beautiful lesson. I will return to the group.
Goodnight...
Why are groups extinguished.....?
Very simple:
Because each member that withdraws takes fire and heat from the rest.
It is worth reminding members of a group that they are part of the flame.
It is good to remind you that we are all responsible for keeping each other's flame burning and we must promote the union between all so that the fire is really strong, effective and lasting.
*THE* *GROUP* *IS* *ALSO* *A* *FAMILY*
*It does not matter if sometimes we are bothered by so many messages that reach the chat, what matters is to be connected, some of us are silent, others very active, the friends that we are meeting here are to meet, learn, exchange ideas, or simply know that we are not alone, that there is a group of friends, colleagues or family with whom we can count.*
Let's keep the flame alive. Although some report sporadically it is good to know that they keep their flame burning!
*THANK YOU FOR BEING PART OF OUR BONFIRE*
*SONAL JAIN*
*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*
www.sonaljainvedic.com
"A man, who regularly attended meetings with his friends, without any notice stopped participating in his activities.
After a few weeks, one very cold night the leader of that group decided to visit him.
He found the man at home, alone, sitting in front of a fireplace where a bright and cozy fire burned. Guessing the reason for the visit, the man welcomed the leader. There was a great silence.
The two men only watched the dancing flames around the logs that crackled in the fireplace.
After a few minutes the leader, without saying a word, examined the embers that formed and selected one of them, the most incandescent of all, removing it to the side of the brazier with a pair of tongs. Then he sat down again.
The host was paying attention to everything, fascinated but restless. Before long, the lone ember flame subsided, until there was only a momentary glow and the fire suddenly went out.
In a short time, what was a sample of light and heat, was nothing more than a black, cold and dead piece of coal.
Very few words had been spoken since the greeting.
The leader, before preparing to leave, with the pliers returned the cold and useless coal, placing it again in the middle of the fire. Immediately, the ember was rekindled, fueled by the light and heat of the burning coals around him.
When the leader reached the door to leave, the host said: Thank you for your visit and for your beautiful lesson. I will return to the group.
Goodnight...
Why are groups extinguished.....?
Very simple:
Because each member that withdraws takes fire and heat from the rest.
It is worth reminding members of a group that they are part of the flame.
It is good to remind you that we are all responsible for keeping each other's flame burning and we must promote the union between all so that the fire is really strong, effective and lasting.
*THE* *GROUP* *IS* *ALSO* *A* *FAMILY*
*It does not matter if sometimes we are bothered by so many messages that reach the chat, what matters is to be connected, some of us are silent, others very active, the friends that we are meeting here are to meet, learn, exchange ideas, or simply know that we are not alone, that there is a group of friends, colleagues or family with whom we can count.*
Let's keep the flame alive. Although some report sporadically it is good to know that they keep their flame burning!
*THANK YOU FOR BEING PART OF OUR BONFIRE*
*SONAL JAIN*
*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*
www.sonaljainvedic.com
Monday, 25 May 2020
#Fail#Try#success
*"People fail because they try.*
*People try because they believe. People succeed because they still believed even when they failed."*
You can succeed if you keep believing in yourself.
The road is not an easy one, at times you may want to quit, but don't.
*Try again.*
Do you maybe need to re-think your approach, your tactics?
What's working?
What could be improved upon?
*You can do it, just keep going.* *Wish you a great week ahead*
*SONAL JAIN*
*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*
www.sonaljainvedic.com
*People try because they believe. People succeed because they still believed even when they failed."*
You can succeed if you keep believing in yourself.
The road is not an easy one, at times you may want to quit, but don't.
*Try again.*
Do you maybe need to re-think your approach, your tactics?
What's working?
What could be improved upon?
*You can do it, just keep going.* *Wish you a great week ahead*
*SONAL JAIN*
*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*
www.sonaljainvedic.com
Saturday, 23 May 2020
The #art of #forgiveness
As humans, we sometimes find it hard to forgive those who hurt us. We're either too proud or stubborn and would rather ignore the situation and hold a grudge. Unknown to us, this just causes bitterness in our hearts or even creates health problems.
I believe that we are spiritual beings experiencing human life to learn lessons, to grow and become more aware of our connection to our soul and God. To forgive those who hurt you can only bring peace in your heart, letting go of the past, and letting the one who asked for forgiveness experience their own spiritual growth.
It does not change the past, what we went through, however the future has not happened yet; we only have today to make the best of our lives.
*SONAL JAIN*
*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*
www.sonaljainvedic.com