Monday 29 February 2016

#Pictures

The man who only looks at the pictures on the screen and not the screen itself, is troubled by the pains and pleasures that occur in the story.

But the man who views the screen, realises that the images are all shadows and not something apart and distinct from the screen.

So also with the world. It is all a shadow play.



SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Very Good Morning 😀

Saturday 27 February 2016

#Story

There is an ancient story....
A man who has gone out of his town comes back and finds that his house is on fire. It was one of the most beautiful houses in the town, and the man loved the house. Many people were ready to give double price for the house, but he had never agreed for any price, and now it is just burning before his eyes. And thousands of people have gathered, but nothing can be done.
The fire has spread so far that even if you try to put it out, nothing will be saved. So he becomes very sad. His son comes running, and whispers something in his ear: "Don't be worried. I sold it yesterday, and at a very good price ― three times.... The offer was so good I could not wait for you. Forgive me."

But the father said, "Good, if you have sold it for three times more than the original price of the house."

Then the father is also a watcher, with other watchers.
Just a moment before he was not a watcher, he was identified. It is the same house, the same fire, everything is the same but now he is not concerned. He is enjoying it just as everybody else is enjoying.

Then the second son comes running, and he says to the father, "What are you doing? You are smiling ― and the house is on fire?"

The father said, "Don't you know, your brother has sold it."
He said, "He had talked about selling it, but nothing has been settled yet, and the man is not going to purchase it now."

Again, everything changes. Tears which had disappeared, have come back to the father's eyes, his smile is no more there, his heart is beating fast. But the watcher is gone.

He is again identified.
And then the third son comes, and he says, "That man is a man of his word. I have just come from him. He said, 'It doesn't matter whether the house is burned or not, it is mine. And I am going to pay the price that I have settled for.

Neither you knew, nor I knew that the house would catch on fire.'"

Again the father is a watcher. The identity is no more there.
Actually nothing is changing; just the idea that "I am the owner, I am
identified somehow with the house," makes the whole difference.

The next moment he feels, "I am not identified. Somebody else has purchased it,
I have nothing to do with it; let the house burn."
This simple methodology of watching the mind, that you have nothing to do with it....

Most of its thoughts are not yours but from your parents, your teachers, your friends, the books, the movies, the television, the newspapers.

Just count how many thoughts are your own, and you will be surprised that not a single thought is your own.

All are from other sources, all are borrowed ― either dumped by others on you, or foolishly dumped by yourself upon yourself, but nothing is yours.

SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Very Good Morning 😀

Thursday 25 February 2016

#Master/ disciple

Dear Seekers,

Once a disciple who loved and admired his Master decided to observe his behaviour minutely, believing that if he did everything that his Master did, then he would also acquire his Master's wisdom. The Master always wore white, and so the disciple did the same. The Master was a vegetarian, and so the disciple stopped eating meat and went on a diet of vegetables and herbs. The Master was an austere man, and so the disciple decided to devote himself to self–sacrifice and started sleeping on a straw mattress.

After some time, the Master noticed these changes in His disciple's behaviour and asked him why.

'I am climbing the steps of initiation,' came the reply.

'The white of my clothes shows the simplicity of my search, the vegetarian food purifies my body, and the lack of comfort makes me think only of spiritual things.'

Smiling, the Master took him to a field where a horse was grazing.

'You have spent all this time looking outside yourself, which is what matters least,' he said. 'Do you see that creature there? He has white skin, eats only grass and sleeps in a stable on a straw bed. Do you think he has the face of a saint or will one day become a true Master?' The true learning or transformation is always internal. So look within.

Similarly sometimes we become so engrossed with our beloved Divine, that we start copying the way of sitting, talking by someone whom we admire - which is very natural but we fail to recognise the true path or guidance shown to us by HIM.... Internally.


SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Very Good Morning 😀

Wednesday 24 February 2016

#Trust

Trust is built when U give the true feeling that whatever the other person knows will never be used to place U in an embarrassing situation.


SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Tuesday 23 February 2016

#Smart men

Most men aren't smart enough to realize that the highery you elevate your woman, the less available is she for other men.

But when you break her down, you make her accessible to anyone she thinks will treat her better.


SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

#Good judgement

The toughest test of good judgment

is to know when to withhold your best judgment.


SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Sunday 21 February 2016

#Communication

Head-to-Head communication is in words,

Heart-to-Heart through feelings.

Soul- to-Soul communication is silence.

Have a Blessed Day.


SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com


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Saturday 20 February 2016

#Foundation

Life is like building a "skyscraper".

The height to which you rise depends on the

DEPTH ,STRENGTH & GENUINENESS

of how you lay your FOUNDATIONS.


SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Friday 19 February 2016

#Luck

Luck is like sand in hands.

It will sneak out through fingers,
no mater gripped firmly or held loosely.

But Your hard earned prosperity and position is like a magnet in an iron glowed hand !

No matter how you hold , it will never leave your destiny,

Believe in your ability and not on your luck !


SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Wednesday 17 February 2016

#Depression / failure

Depression in failure should never go to heart,

and ego in success should never go to brain.


SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Tuesday 16 February 2016

#Committment

Commitment is the language of the wise;

complaint is the language of the fools.

Commitment is a responsibility and also includes accountability.

In life, one should be responsible as well as accountable.

Generally one takes responsibility without accountability.

This weakens one's being.


SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Monday 15 February 2016

#Friends

"Earn two friends in life,

One like Krishna who will not fight but will make sure you win;

and another like Karna who will fight for you even when you are losing"


SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Sunday 14 February 2016

#Married/Divorced

MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ...

"When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I'm a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. If you are not in a relationship now, remember this for the second (or third) time around. It's never too late.

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.


SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Saturday 13 February 2016

#Happy Valentine's Day

Thursday 11 February 2016

#Happiness

The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems,

but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect."



SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

Wednesday 10 February 2016

Memories

MEMORIES are always Special.

Sometimes, We Laugh by Remembering the days We Cried.
&
Some times, We Cry by Remembering the days We Laughed.

Thats Life.

SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Tuesday 9 February 2016

#Confrontations

How do you 'handle' confrontations?


Dearest Friends,

Hard as it might be, the best thing to do when you're having a difference of opinion IS NOT wanting to prove you are right.

Wanting to prove 'you' are right, just breeds negative feelings.

Confronting conflict can make us incredibly anxious.

When you walk into those situations that have a lot of conflict in them, the first thing to do is to allow the other person to speak first. When you do this, you are NOT giving power away. Hence, put your ego to one side. You are actually allowing them to feel valued and understood.

By listening to the other person's side, you are giving them the chance to become a part of the conversation.

If the other person is saying something objectionable, you have to bite your tongue. Just wait. Why?

First of all, when you respond in moments of anger and atmosphere of confrontation, anyways, you are not going to respond well.

More importantly, when you listen, few things might happen.

You might get a little more information about what that situation is really about. You might learn 'how' to take things onwards and get ahead. Maybe, you will realize, there is another perspective. And yes, the other person will feel a little less aggressive.

Finally, even if you don't get any new information relevant to the fight itself, there will certainly be nuggets of wisdom on how to handle similar situations later.

Imagine a fight in a marriage about the absence of quality time. It could put one person squarely in the wrong, but that doesn't mean the person who was right doesn't stand anything to learn and improve.

Maybe there is a lesson on how mutual time should be created, or in that quality time what electronic devices should be kept away or how the other person feels unappreciated because one spouse is distracted.

Subtle insights like these can only be found once we shut our mouths and actually 'want' to understand the other person, not crush them.

Final words? Stop proving a point. Stop winning arguments. Stop fixing the blame. Stop justifying your actions. Stop dominating a discussion. Violence never builds bridges. It destroys existing ones.

May each one of us be a 'bridge builder' and not a bridge destroyer.


Imagine, when we wake up, we are given only what we had thanked for.



SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Monday 8 February 2016

#Fool #teacher

The fool became the king's teacher
There once was a fool who set off for the palace of the king. Along the way, people pointed and
laughed at him. They called sarcastically:

- What would a fool like you do at the king's palace?

- Well, I shall be the king's teacher.


The fool replied with certainty. But his answer only made the people laugh more. When the fool arrived at the palace, the king thought he could quickly deal with the fool and have some fun at his expense. The monarch asked in a strict tone:

- How dare you come and disturb the king?

- I am here to become your teacher.The fool said confidently. The king doubled over with laughter:

- What would a fool like you be able to teach me?
- You see, said the fool, you are asking me a question straight away.

It turned dreadfully quiet in the throne room and all the royal household staff held their breath. The king too was taken aback, but then he replied:

- I have to admit that your reaction was clever, but you didn't answer my question.

- Only a fool has an answer to everything, king.

- But…, spluttered the king flabbergasted, what would my subjects think if their king would have a fool as his teacher?

- Better a fool as teacher than a fool as king, came back the answer.

The king was rather taken aback by the fool's answers, but still tried to salvage the situation with a clever question.

- But if I take a fool as teacher, does that not make me a fool?

- Only a fool will always say of himself that he is not a fool, king.

And that is how the fool became the king's teacher.


SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Sunday 7 February 2016

#Worry n concern

" There is a great difference between "worry" & "concern",

A worried person only sees the problem
&
a concerned person solves the problem..!



SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Saturday 6 February 2016

Lucky and unlucky

Good Research on Definition of Lucky and Unlucky.

Worth it to read and re-read and re-read whenever we feel we are Unlucky...............

Why some people have all the Luck ?

Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaks they deserve?

A psychologist says he has discovered the answer.

Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some people are always in the right place at the right time, while others consistently experience ill fortune. I placed advertisements in national newspapers asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.

Hundreds of extraordinary men & women volunteered for my research & over the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives & had them take part in experiments.

The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight into the causes of their luck, their thoughts & behaviour are responsible for much of their good & bad fortune. Take the case of seemingly chance opportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities, whereas unlucky people do not.

I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to differences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both lucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through it & tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying : "Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $50."

This message took up half of the page & was written in type that was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it & the lucky people tended to spot it.

Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected. As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else. They go to parties'; intent on finding their perfect partner & so miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements & miss other types of jobs.

Lucky people are more relaxed & open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for. My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. They are skilled at creating & noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.

Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could be used to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend a month carrying out exercises designed to help them think & behave like a lucky person. Dramatic results ! These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities, listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to bad luck. One month later, the volunteers returned & described what had happened. The results were dramatic : 80% of people were now happier, more satisfied with their lives & perhaps most important of all, luckier.

The lucky people had become even luckier & the unlucky had become lucky. Finally, I had found the elusive "luck factor".

Here are Professors four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right
2) Be open to new experiences and breaking Ur normal routine
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
4) Visualize Urself being lucky before an important meeting or telephone call.

Have a Lucky day and work for it... "


SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Friday 5 February 2016

#Decision

"Stay Committed to Your DECISION

but stay Flexible in Your APPROACH".


SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Thursday 4 February 2016

#Significant

SUCCESSFULL people make a difference in their own lives.

SIGNIFICANT people make a difference in the lives of others as well.

Be SIGNIFICANT

Spread the SMILE.


SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

Wednesday 3 February 2016

#Happy

Being happy
doesn't mean that everything is perfect.

It means that

You've decided to look beyond the imperfections.

SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

Tuesday 2 February 2016

#Sorry

How do you look at yourself

Did you say 'Sorry'?


Dear friend,

I read something that made me laugh. In the next minute, I was thoughtful. In the minute after that, I understood how deep the words were. Sharing it with you. If possible, do the activity. That way the results are better and deeper. Here it goes....

Throw down a ceramic plate.

Ok. Done.

Did it break?

Yes

Now say 'sorry' to it.

Sorry

Did it get back to the way it was?

No

Did you understand anything?

...
...
...

(Sheepishly)...Yes

For a few moments after reading it, I was completely silent. It was as if the words were finding its permanent place inside my memory. It was as if, they wanted to be out of sight but never out of mind.

I remembered a conversation I had the other day with my friend Aditya. He was narrating an incident that his brother witnessed when he was working in Singapore. For a meeting with the boss, an employee came 15 minutes late to office. He immediately went to the boss's cabin and said, 'I am sorry'.

The boss looked at him squarely and said, "There are two possibilities why you are late. Either there was something more important than our meeting. In that case, you did the right thing by doing that first. Hence, there is no reason for you to say sorry. Or, you were disorganized and lazy. In that case, your sorry has no value. You see, in both cases, there is no need to say 'sorry'?"

Do you say sorry often? Do you resist saying sorry? Do you say sorry because you feel so? Do you say sorry to escape a difficult situation? Do you find it suffocating to say sorry even when you know you are wrong? Do you find justifying your action/inaction more to your style than 'saying' sorry?

Do you find it easy to forgive people AFTER they have said sorry? Do you find it hard to let go even if people are genuine about a mistake and have said sorry?

What is your relationship with 'sorry'? It's worth thinking! It just might change something about you. It has changed something inside of me!!!


SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||


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Monday 1 February 2016

#Vision #power #purpose

Only when you have a vision for tomorrow you will find POWER and PURPOSE in your today's work .



SONAL JAIN

CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||