Saturday, 23 December 2017

#Watch your #words

*Scenario - 1*

A friend asked another,
"What did your husband gift you to celebrate your child's birth?"

The 2nd friend replied that he did not give her anything.😣

The 1st friend was surprised and questioned her friend as to whether this was a good thing.πŸ€” "Does he not value you at all?" 😀

After sowing the seed of such poisonous thoughts the 1st friend left, leaving her friend worried and doubtful.

After sometime the husband comes home from work and sees his wife's sullen face.
While enquiring about it both start fighting which leads to them cursing at each other which leads to physical fight and eventually a divorce.

*Do you know the root of this problem?*

It was just an unnecessary dialogue with a friend who had come to ask about her friends health.

*Scenario - 2*
Zain asked Hamed;

Z- "Where do you work?"
H- "In some store"

Z- "What is your monthly income?"
H- "18,000 Rupees"

Z- "Just 18,000? How do you live off so little?"
H- Breathes deeply. "What shall I say my friend!"

The conversation ends

A few days later Hamed become fed up of his job and asked his boss to increase his salary. The boss refuses and Hamed left the job and now has no job.
He had work before but now he has no work.

*Scenario - 3*
A neighbour spoke to an old man, who lived away from his son.

He asked him, "Your son comes to meet you very little. Does he not have any love for you?"

The old man replied that his son is a busy man and has a tight work schedule. He also has a wife and children, so he has very little time.

The first man said, "What do you mean! You brought him up, you nurtured him, fulfilled all his wishes and now you rationalize with yourself for no reason that because of his other engagements he does not have any time to meet you! I tell you this is only an excuse to not meet."

After this conversation, the old man started thinking about the conversation & disappointment started against the son started growing in the father's heart.

Whenever the son would come to meet after that the father would only keep thinking that he has time for everyone, except his father.
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In our everyday life, questions that seem very innocent to us, like....

"Why did you not buy anything for me?"
"Why don't you have this?"
"How can you spend your whole life with this person?"
"How can you believe him?"

We unknowingly ask many such questions innocently without thinking of their consequences on others.

Without thinking about the seeds of doubt & hate we are about to plant in someone's heart.

In today's times if we go to the root of all the chaos and fights that are happening around us, most often it will be because of someone else. They don't realize that whatever they said intentionally or unintentionally can destroy someone's life.

Do not become a trouble maker and a spreader of doubt and evil.

Enter other people's home blind and leave it deaf.

*Remember the words that leave your mouth have a deep and massive effect on others.*

Let us be more aware of what words we chose to show our concern for others πŸ™πŸΌπŸ’


*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Sunday, 19 November 2017

When do you feel good about yourself??

When do you feel good about yourself...?

If you're like most people, you feel good when you accomplish something—reach a milestone or a goal—do something kind for someone else. 

It can be as basic as washing your car or cleaning off your desk. 

It might be simple as letting someone else go first in line at the store, or helping someone who needs assistance. 

Such simple, daily acts can make you feel downright virtuous.

And that's the point.

If you want to feel good about yourself, do something to trigger that feeling. 

Do something estimable. 

Get something done. 

Take action on your to-do list. Help someone. 

Give to someone. 
Take care of something that needs your attention. 
Make a list of acts that make you feel good about yourself.

Then, whenever your attitude is a bit negative, or your mood is gloomy, or your self-esteem is in the basement—get out your list of estimable acts and do something on that list.

People who do good things feel good about themselves...

Start now...


*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

Saturday, 28 October 2017

Sonal jain announcement Dubai Nov 2017


Saturday, 7 October 2017

*WHEN YOU #THOUGHT I WASN'T #LOOKING*

*WHEN YOU THOUGHT I WASN'T LOOKING*
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately wanted to paint another one.

When you thought I wasn't looking saw you feed a stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.

When you thought I wasn't looking, saw you make my favorite cake for me and I learned that the little things can be the special things in life.

When you thought I wasn't looking I heard you say a prayer, and I knew there is a God I could always talk to and I learned to trust in God.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make a meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I learned that we all have to help take care of each other.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you give of your time and money to help people who had nothing and I learned that those who have something should give to those who don't.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you take care of our house and everyone in it and I learned we have to take care of what we are given.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw how you handled your responsibilities, even when you didn't feel good and I learned that I would have to be responsible when I grow up.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw tears come from your eyes and I learned that sometimes things hurt, but it's all right to cry.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw that you cared and I wanted to be everything that I could be.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I learned most of life's lessons that I need to know to be a good and productive person when I grow up.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I looked at you and wanted to say, "Thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn't looking."

*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Friday, 6 October 2017

*SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND, AND THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD...*

When I was in elementary school, I got into a major argument with a boy in my class. I have forgotten what the argument was about, but I have never forgotten the lesson I learned that day.

I was convinced that 'I' was right and 'he' was wrong - and he was just as convinced that 'I' was wrong and 'he' was right.

The teacher brought us up to the front of the class and placed him on one side of her desk and me on the other.

In the middle of her desk was a large, round object. I could clearly see that it was black. She asked the boy what color the object was. "White," he answered.

I couldn't believe he said the object was white, when it was obviously black!

The teacher told me to go stand where the boy was standing and told him to come stand where I had been. We changed places, and now she asked me what the color of the object was. I had to answer, "White."

It was an object with two differently colored sides, and from his viewpoint it was white. Only from my side it was black.

Sometimes we need to look at the problem from the other person's view in order to truly understand their perspective.

*I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.*

*What we see depends mainly on what we look for.*

*Imagine you could open your eyes to see only the good in every person, the positive in every circumstance, and the opportunity in every challenge.*

*Leadership is communicating to people their worth and potential so clearly that they come to see it in themselves.*

*When the trust account is high communication is instant easy and effective.*

*Shift your thinking and watch your life shift...*


*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Sunday, 3 September 2017

#Setting#Personal#Goals

*Setting Personal Goals*

You say you have set your goals?

Congratulations!

Are they set for the right reason?

We set goals for short term objectives. Most of these objectives concern materialistic wants: money, and physical things.

Here is a suggestion to take a different point of view when working on goals.

Start with deciding what your life should be. Take some time to define your life five years from now. Here are some questions you might ask yourself.

What are my surroundings?

What kind of places am I in?

What am I feeling?

What are my emotions?

What type of people are around me?

What kind of feelings do I get from them?

What am I doing? Physically?

Where am I going? My future?

Where have I been?

Notice there are no questions dealing with money, or named places, or named people. The answers to these questions will provide you with attitudes, feelings, values, perceptions and other non-tangible ideas that make life worth living no matter where you are, who you are with, or what you are doing!

If we have created a lifestyle that we like, then the physical part of our lives will fit right in and accompany the lifestyle because it has to!

Suggestion is to look at the lifestyle you want to create, and set your plan to achieve the lifestyle instead of the physical side of life most of us set our goals to achieve.

To go even deeper, define your values very clearly and make sure that your vision of your life in five years fits with your values.

Is it worth it?

You have heard the phrase 'plan your work and work your plan'? If you do not create your life by setting goals and a plan to reach them, someone is doing it for you. If you think about it, that is really scary! What kind of vision would some else have for you?

Think of it this way. Look back five years ago in your life. Are you today where you imagined you would be five years ago? Or are you where someone else imagined you would be?

Don't you think your life would dramatically improve if you made the plan instead of 'them'? Don't you think you might have a little more interest in your life than someone else.

As the advertisement says so well:

Just do it!

*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

www.sonaljainvedic.com

#Acceptance

*Acceptance*

When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes *Anger*; when we accept it, it becomes *Tolerance.*

When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes *Fear*; when we accept it, it becomes *Adventure.*

When we don't accept other's bad behaviour towards us, it becomes *Hatred;when we accept it, it becomes Forgiveness.*

When we don't accept other's Success, it becomes *Jealousy;* when we accept it, it becomes *Inspiration.*

Acceptance is the key to handling life well.

*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

www.sonaljainvedic.com