Saturday, 9 November 2019

*Overcome everything that's holding you back in life.*

*Overcome everything that's holding you back in life.*

We have all been paralyzed by our fears at some point in our lives — they have a sneaky way of dictating our actions and reactions. More importantly, our fears have a way to blind us to all the numerous opportunities that would help us grow.

If you want to thrive, instead of just survive, you must face your fears. The problem is, we often think that fears are fixed and cannot be overcome. We think that this is just the way we are and will remain for the rest of our lives.



Friday, 8 November 2019

*Whose #Reality Are You Living In?*

*Whose Reality Are You Living In?*

"One of the things I learned the hard way was that it doesn't pay to get discouraged.
Keeping busy and making optimism a way of life can restore your faith in yourself."
--- Lucille Ball

Imagine two people take a ride in a balloon.

One of them is terrified of heights. The other isn't.

The one who isn't will enjoy the magnificent view, feel the warm wind on his face and simply love the ride. The person terrified of heights will probably squat on the floor, thinking "Oh my God! Oh my God! This thing is gonna crash and burn! We're all gonna die! Aaaaaaaaa!!!"

Objectively, they went through exactly the same experience. Yet one person had the time of their life, while the other would be better off having their chest hair depilated (and trust me, that HURTS). The difference was in their VIEW of the reality.

Your view of the world is crucially important for your well-being. Yet many people let others decide their reality for them be it friends, relatives, TV, or the newspaper.

You decide your reality depending on your thoughts and conviction.



Thursday, 7 November 2019

*Just Focus - Look Forward*

*Just Focus - Look Forward*

"An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward.

So, when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it's going to launch you into something great.

So just focus, and keep aiming."
— Paulo Coelho

Can you keep your focus forward looking or will you go back to tomorrow and what your life was like then?

Yesterday is over – you can't change it. You can control what you focus on.

Given the choice, and we do have it, what do you want to see show up in your life?

Focus on it, keep seeing it and take steps to get closer to it. You're on the right track!



Wednesday, 6 November 2019

*You Can Handle It*

*You Can Handle It*

*"Never say 'I can't handle it'.*

When an ant looks at something twice what he can handle, and then carries it home to share, *you* can handle it."
— Cara Ritz

This quote is definitely worth remembering, especially if you have convinced yourself into believing that there was no way possible to accomplish the task at hand.

Stop limiting yourself.

Believe in you and your abilities.

Will it be easy? No.
Will it be worth it? Oh Yes!




Tuesday, 5 November 2019

*How Do You Use Your #Abilities?*

*How Do You Use Your Abilities?*

"Do everything to the best of your abilities so that in everything you do, your abilities will become better."
--- Bob Proctor

Maybe you think this is a really simple quote.........

Perhaps it is on the surface and may we suggest that you consider it's meaning. When we practice using our abilities, they become better. Think back on the first time you had to write your name. It was pretty hard but as you continued doing it, honing your skill, it became easier and almost automatic after a while.

What abilities or skills do you have that could be improved upon by using them more? Ask any professional how they became so good at what they do. We believe that practicing over and over again will be on their list. I know it's one of the top 10 of mine.



Wednesday, 16 October 2019

*Two Words* *What If??*

*Two Words*

I saw a movie on Netflix last week, and in it was a statement about two words. They are the two simple words, "if" and "what"...

These two words by themselves are very innocent and really can be implemented in many sentences and questions, but if you put them together, it forms a very powerful question...

*What If??*

This question is the very question that can and will bring you back to a certain instance in your life where you made a choice. A choice that you may not be happy with today and often think about why you did it, but discovered you settled on it because of one of two reasons...

You settled on that decision because it was the easier path to travel at that specific moment in your life, or you did not think that you could take the other choice because of fear of failure or what other people would think.

Now, years later you think about that one specific choice or choices you have made in you life and your mind and thoughts start to take aim at your decision...

You have an inner battle with yourself and contemplate if you had that decision again, what would you do?

What would your life be like today??

Would it be totally different?

Would you be where you are right now, in the exact space sitting and reading this??

Here again lies the very important question...

What if you had that decision to make again??

What would you do??

Would you take the other path because of what you know now, or would you think it would be too late in time to go down the other path all together??

Your mind will probably and inevitably tell you not to do it...Not to do it because you are comfortable in life and doing something different may bring you down a path of uncomfortableness and anxiety may set in.

But is that not how we grow stronger and learn things about ourselves by doing or trying things we never thought possible? Pushing one's self to the limit and going beyond our normal comfort zone!!!!!

In life, there is an old cliche' that I know... It is "Where there is a will, there is a way".

I truly believe if you want something bad enough, you can do it and achieve it. You can correct the mistakes of your decisions from the past, and go out and find happiness in the right decision for your future.

It is never too late do anything in life...

You are on this earth for the time period of a blink of an eye in respect to time overall. Everyday we have to make decisions and have choices thrown at us that could hinder our forward motion or even change the course of our lives all together.

When entering into a decision, make sure it is the right one. Make sure that you play out your answer a year from now, or even ten or twenty years from now.

But if you find yourself in that position of wondering "What if", then usually you have made the wrong decision to begin with, and must correct it so you can live in peace not only now, but for your future as well...



Thursday, 8 August 2019