Friday 27 November 2020

Kindness & Compassion

A farmer had a neighbor who was a hunter, and who owned ferocious and poorly trained hunting dogs.
They jumped the fence frequently and chased the farmer's lambs. The farmer asked his neighbor to keep his dogs in check, but this fell on deaf ears.

One day the dogs again jumped the fence and attacked and severely injured several of the lambs. The farmer had had enough, and went to town to consult a judge who listened carefully to the story and said: "I could punish the hunter and instruct him to keep his dogs chained or lock them up. But you would lose a friend and gain an enemy. Which would you rather have, friend or foe for a neighbor?"

The farmer replied that he preferred a friend. "Alright, I will offer you a solution that keeps your lambs safe, and which will keep your a neighbor a friend." Having heard the judge's solution, the farmer agreed.

Once at home, the farmer immediately put the judge's suggestions to the test. He took three of his best lambs and presented them to his neighbor's three small sons, who were beside themselves with joy and began to play with them.

To protect his son's newly acquired playthings, the hunter built a strong kennel for his dogs. Since then, the dogs never again bothered the farmer's lambs. Out of gratitude for the farmer's generosity toward his sons, the hunter often shared the game he had hunted with the farmer.

The farmer reciprocated by sending the hunter lamb meat and cheese he had made. Within a short time the neighbors became good friends.
"One can win over and influence people the best with gestures of kindness and compassion."

"Do not judge anybody by the way they speak, judge them by the way they care because care is the outcome of true love in any relationship"

No matter how everyone treats you, you show kindness & compassion.

Win over people & stay Blessed forever.



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Sunday 22 November 2020

How do u #charge

A customer asked me how much for 1 day wedding photography package
𝗠𝗲: Rs 60,000 approximately ($800) 😊

π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: Why is it too expensive? all i need is an album and a video

𝗠𝗲: How much do you think it would cost you?

π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: Rs 7500/- ($100) maximum... It's just easy, right?! all you have to do is take some pictures.

𝗠𝗲: hmm okay, maybe you can do it yourself.

π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: but I don't know how...πŸ˜‚

𝗠𝗲: For Rs 7500 ($100) I'll teach you, with that, you can save Rs 52000 approximately ($700). You'll get the knowledge that you'll need. πŸ˜‰

π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: Okay, I'm fine with that. 😁

𝗠𝗲: But to get started: We need some things first:
a professional DSLR (180000) ($2400)
DSLR lens (120000) ($1600)
light setup (30000+) ($400)
other camera accessories (15000) ($200)

π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: Oh my.😣 But I don't have all these photography equipments . Do I need to buy all of that?
I just only need 1 wedding album n a video 😐

𝗠𝗲: ohh!! sorry i totally forgot about videography equipments .. those things will cost you extra πŸ™‚

π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: Really? what?😲.. 🀯

*When you pay for a job, you pay not only for the work materials, but also:*

- Knowledge
- Experience
- Study
- Tools
- Services
- Time to go
- punctuality
- Accountability
- Accuracy
- Guaranteed
- Sacrifices
- Safety and security

*No one can denigrate other people's work by judging prices.*



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Friday 13 November 2020

Happy Diwali


Happy #Dhanteras/ #Happy #Diwali

Happy Dhanteras/ happy Diwali πŸͺ” 

 Sonal Jain n family

Monday 9 November 2020

Science / semen

Science says that the amount of semen that is released once an adult healthy male has intercourse contains 400 million sperm.
So, according to logic, if that amount of sperm found a place in the womb of a girl, then 400 million babies would be created!
This 400 million sperm, running like crazy towards the mother's uterus, only 300-500 sperm survive.

And the rest? He dies of exhaustion or defeat on the way. These are 300-500 sperm, which have been able to reach the ovum. Only one of them, a very strong sperm, fertilizes the ovum, or takes a seat in the ovum. That lucky sperm is you or me, or all of us.

*Have you ever thought of this great war?*

1. When you ran "there were no eyes, hands, feet, head, yet you won.

2. When you ran, you didn't have a certificate, you didn't have a brain, but you won.

3. You had no education when you ran, no one helped but you won.

4. You had a destination when you ran and you ran with a single mind, aiming at that destination and you won in the end.

- After that, many babies are lost in the mother's womb.
But you are not dead, you have completed 10 full months.
- Many babies die at birth but you survived.
- Many babies die in the first 5 years of life. You are still alive.
- Many children die of malnutrition. Nothing happened to you.
- Many have left the world on the way to growing up, you are still alive .

And today ......

You panic when something happens, you get frustrated, but why?

Why do you think you lost?
Why have you lost confidence?
Now you have friends, siblings, certificates, everything. There are hands and feet, there is education, there is the brain to plan, there are people to help, yet you have lost hope. When you did not give up on the first day of life. Fighting to the death with 400 million sperm, he has won the competition alone without any help by running continuously.

Why do you break down when something happens ??

Why do you say I do not want to live?

Why did U say I lost?

It is possible to highlight thousands of such things, but why are you frustrated?

Why would you lose? Why rate?

*You win in the beginning, you win in the end, you win in the middle.*

Give yourself time, ask yourself what talent you have.



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Saturday 7 November 2020

#Talking of #Purpose

*Talking of Purpose*

As humans we have many purposes. We all lead different lives and have had many different scenarios played out that only we can know about.

We have had our up's and down's. We have made the most of some situation's whilst letting others pass us by. We have learned many different lessons and will continue to do so.

Our ability to operate is amazing and by looking in from the outside is inspiration alone. We are the creation happening and we are always making progress.

A lesson learned is progress. *Sometimes it takes a mistake to enable a lesson learned.*

Celebrate a mistake with newfound optimism over a new lesson learned.

If you ever drift, think of a caterpillar on its way up the tree to become something different from what it had been. Ask yourself this; *when does evolution take place?*

Now is the time when progress takes grace. In this moment, we are all we can be; we have learned many lessons like our friend, the butterfly, leaving the tree.



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Thursday 5 November 2020

#Winners v/s #Loosers

*Losers visualize the fear & penalties of failure..*

*Winners visualize the Rewards of Success..*

*Let's be the Winner..*



Monday 2 November 2020

An #extra #marital #affair

"She had an extra - marital affair. Interestingly her husband knows about it."

She was looking different for last few days, she was looking happy, confident, suddenly was looking beautiful, taking care of herself also not only a dedicated wife for husband and woman for home,she was singing, she was dancing, her dressing sense has commendably improved...

It was strange! In previous years he had never seen this form of her.. He was sure someone else has entered in her life and she is transforming herself for him a woman always lives for the joy and happiness of a man!

He was feeling like spending some more time with her to explore the reason behind it..

Saturday Eve a perfect time to spend together he proposed a dine out and she accepted the proposal..

He asked her about the venue and for the first time she expressed her opinion!
Again a surprise.. earlier it was always his decision!

They went to a beautiful restaurant with a very nice romantic ambience, she was looking amazing and he was just looking at her as if he is meeting her for the first time..

Now sitting on the table, again which was reserved by her he was just trying to explore the reason of this transformation, he after holding her hand asked very politely, Dear you look amazing, and changed for last few days. What is the secret?

She looked into his eyes and smiled, and said, I am also surprised! You are sitting with me at a place of my choice, holding my hand, looking into my eyes, not looking into Mobile, or staring at girls moving around! Isn't it strange?

Then she picked up her phone and clicked a selfie and forwarded it to someone and her phone started ringing...

Now he was uncomfortable..

She smiled and announced "I am in Love!!!"

He was shocked! For a few minutes he felt like slapping her... But for the first time he had also started loving her and didn't want to loose her!

Composing himself he asked "Who is he?"

She smiled it's not he it's she!

Infact It's not she it's me!

I love myself, I love spending time with people I like, visit places I love, I am alive! And you know what I realised you also love me more when I love myself...

He had tears in his eyes of course with a sigh of relief..

Said sorry and promised will not keep unreasonable expectations from her and respect her always..

Now he knows the lady who is with him is alive, confident and deserves love and respect and if not given by him can find anywhereπŸ™‚

So ladies life is beautiful, spend some time with yourself, love yourself, respect yourself, value yourself...

Ultimately when you love and respect yourself, you will be loved by others and trust me "You deserve it!"



Sunday 1 November 2020

#Ways to cultivate #gratitude

*Ways to cultivate gratitude*

November kicks off the holiday season with high expectations for a cozy and festive time of year. However, for many this time of year is tinged with sadness, anxiety, or depression. Certainly, major depression or a severe anxiety disorder benefits most from professional help. But what about those who just feel lost or overwhelmed or down at this time of year?

*Gratitude* is a way for people to appreciate what they have instead of always reaching for something new in the hopes it will make them happier, or thinking they can't feel satisfied until every physical and material need is met. Gratitude helps people refocus on what they have instead of what they lack. And, although it may feel contrived at first, this mental state grows stronger with use and practice.

Here are some ways to cultivate gratitude on a regular basis which will give happiness to yourself.

*Write a thank-you note.* You can make yourself happier and nurture your relationship with another person by writing a thank-you letter expressing your enjoyment and appreciation of that person's impact on your life. Send it, or better yet, deliver and read it in person if possible. Make a habit of sending at least one gratitude letter a month. Once in a while, write one to yourself.

*Thank someone mentally*. No time to write? It may help just to think about someone who has done something nice for you, and mentally thank the individual.

*Keep a gratitude journal*. Make it a habit to write down or share with a loved one thoughts about the gifts you've received each day.

*Count your blessings.* Pick a time every week to sit down and write about your blessings — reflecting on what went right or what you are grateful for. Sometimes it helps to pick a number — such as three to five things — that you will identify each week. As you write, be specific and think about the sensations you felt when something good happened to you.

*Pray.* People who are religious can use prayer to cultivate gratitude.

*Meditate.* Mindfulness meditation involves focusing on the present moment without judgment. Although people often focus on a word or phrase (such as "peace"), it is also possible to focus on what you're grateful for (the warmth of the sun, a pleasant sound, etc.).