Thursday 19 January 2017

#Never ask why to the #creator

Sometimes some things are written in your fate. No matter how hard you may try to change them, they never change...

The crow and the parrot were both created ugly. The parrot protested and was made beautiful. However, the crow remained content with the will of its CREATOR. Today the parrot is in a cage and the crow flies free...

Behind each incident is so exquisite a wisdom that maybe you will never understand it.

Therefore ...

Never ask "Why?" to the CREATOR.


SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Monday 16 January 2017

#Don't #blow out #spiritual and #pooja items

Wednesday 11 January 2017

#15#points

Thought of sharing...15 points

1) *A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...*
enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to...

2) *A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..*
a youth she's content to leave behind....

3) *A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...*
a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to
retelling it in her old age....

4) *A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....*
one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...

5) *A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...*
a feeling of control over her destiny...

6) *EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...*
how to fall in love without losing herself..

7) *EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.*
how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without; ruining the friendship...

8) *EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.*
when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

9) *EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.*
that she can't change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

10) *EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.*
that her childhood may not have been perfect..but its over...

11) *EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.*
what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...

12) *EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.*
how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...

13) *EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.*
whom she can trust,
whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...

14) *EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.*
where to go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table...
or a charming inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...

15) *EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.*
what she can and can't accomplish in a day...a month...and year!

SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Monday 9 January 2017

A #woman's #journey

A woman perhaps thinks about herself, her individuality, her dreams and aspirations only till the time she is a daughter.

Once married, she makes her husband the center of her universe and by that virtue, his family too.

Once she becomes a mother, she even forgets about her own existence. She happily dedicates her entire being to running between her childrens' school, tuitions, packing them lunch boxes, extra curriculars, doctors appointments and what not - all of this in addition to her domestic responsibilities.

Time flies, and before you know, she has dedicated the most precious 25 to 30 years of her life to this routine. And all along she has enjoyed importance only to the extent of being the caretaker of the family - the all important family decisions were all along taken by the husband.

Once she reaches middle age, when she is no longer as young or energetic, what she gets to hear from her now grown up children is "Ma, I know better, you wont understand!" Or yet, "I'm the one who goes to work, what do you do at home anyways?" coming from the husband. I'd say there's nothing more hurtful and disappointing! Does 'Not-getting-paid' for what you do so lovingly equate to being of no value at all?

Is it her folly that she has spent more than half her life selflessly caring for and loving the family? There are so many women out there who suffer depression, irritability and related disorders, all alone at this stage of life - children settled in their own worlds, retired husbands now a part of various clubs and enjoying the post retirement phase.

I'd say to those women, if you've had the capacity to nurture and care for 10 people of your family, do you really need to depend on them to take care of yourselves? Do you really need someone else to value your own self-worth!

Now is really the time to start living for yourselves! The forgotten hobbies, the books I always wanted to read, the time I wanted to spend with ny friends, the passions I wanted to pursue!

Realise and know that everything that is so perfect in the family at this point - you have had a huge role to play in achieving that perfectness!

The husband was able to go out and work peacefully because I took care of his parents and his home! The children were able to follow their dreams because I facilitated them beyond my capacity!

I resolve now to love myself, to live for myself and to make 'me' happy! There will be no resentments and no regrets with anyone - because 'I' am content.

And last but not the least dear sisters, do not let go off your financial security! Thats the one thing you must not give away or sacrifice for anyone else's happiness!

There's only one life - care for others but live it for yourself!


SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Friday 6 January 2017

#Self#validation

How many times have you waited for someone to reply to the message you wrote, but never received it?

How many times have you dressed up for someone, waiting to hear from them that you're beautiful?

How many times have you waited for someone's call, so that they make you feel happy?

How many times have you waited for someone to appreciate the work you're doing, so it's easier for you to continue doing it?

With the reply that never came, the compliment you didn't hear, the phone call that wasn't intended, and the appreciation that was held back – you and I, we lost our self-worth.

Since kindergarten, we began to associate our self-worth with the golden stars our teachers gave us.

By middle school, this turned into how popular people thought we were and by college, we were living on the compliments we received, and the number of people who praised us.

And till today, we think that our worth is determined by the way others perceive us.

Thus, we want our friends to give joy to us, we want our partners to constantly praise us, we want to be noticed, and we want to be appreciated.

Slowly, and gradually, this will harm us. Seeking approval and validation from others will change into a permanent, life-long struggle if we don't start believing in ourselves.

Stand in front of the mirror and look at yourself – carefully.

Speak to your reflection.
Tell your reflection you are beautiful, you are strong.

Tell your reflection that you appreciate yourself, that you love yourself, that you want to make yourself happy.

Tell your reflection that you'll be there for yourself.

Because, sooner or later, you will realize that there is no one who will always be there for you, there is no one but YOU 😊

SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Thursday 5 January 2017

#Kismet#fate#freedomofman

A man came to Junnaid,

A Sufi mystic, and asked him,

"What do you say about pre-determination, kismet, fate, and the freedom of man?

Is man free to do whatever he wants to do?

Or is he simply a puppet in the hands of an unknown puppeteer, who simply dances the dance that the puppeteer chooses?"

Junnaid is one of the few beautiful mystics.

He shouted at the man, "Raise up one leg!"

The man was a very rich man; Junnaid knew it. All the disciples, the whole school knew about it – and he had shouted so loudly and so rudely,

"Raise one leg up!"

And the rich man had never followed anybody's orders; he had not gone there to follow orders.
And he could not conceive even a far off, far-fetched, off-the-wall relationship between his question and this answer.
But when you are facing a man like Junnaid you have to follow him.

He raised his right leg.

Junnaid said, "That is not enough. Now raise the other, too."

Now the man was at a loss, and angry also.

He said, "You are asking absurdities!

I had come to ask a philosophical question – that you simply dropped without answering.

You asked me to raise one leg, I raised my right leg. And now you are asking me to raise the other, too.

What do you want?

How can I raise both legs?"

Junnaid said,

"Then sit down. Have you received the answer to your question or not?"

The man said,

"The answer to my question has not been given yet. Instead you have been training me in this parade!"

Junnaid said,

"See the point: when I said, 'Raise one of your legs' you had the freedom to choose either the right or the left.

Nobody was determining it, it was your choice to raise the right leg.

But once you had chosen the right leg you could not choose the left too. It is your freedom that has determined the fact of your bondage. Now your left leg is in bondage."

Man is half free and half in bondage, but he is free first.

And it is his freedom, how he uses his freedom, that determines his bondage.

There is nobody sitting there writing in your head or making lines on your palms.

Even an omnipotent God must be tired by now, doing this stupid thing of making lines on people's hands.

And so many people are coming... writing in everybody's head what he is going to be, where he is going to be born, when he is going to die, what disease, what doctor is going to kill him. All these details!

You are free, but each act of freedom brings a responsibility – and that is your bondage. Either call it 'bondage', which is not a beautiful word, or call it 'responsibility'.

*That is what I call it. You choose a certain act – that is your freedom – but then the consequences will be your responsibility.*

SONAL JAIN


CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Monday 2 January 2017

Keep your foot wear properly