Monday, 8 March 2021

*How do you talk to yourself?*

*How do you talk to yourself?*


Do you use the words "can't", "won't", "don't need to", "why try"?
Many people do.

Do you find that what you say to yourself turns out to be true?

Why is this?

You see your brain is like a computer that you feed each day. Itdoesn't know always know what's real or not unless you tell it.

Example: If someone you love has hurt you, you may tellyourself that all people who love you will probably hurt you too.

Your brain just files this information for reference, it's data,little zeroes and ones and no column that asks "true or not true?"Now your brain thinks, based on what you told it, that everyoneyou'll ever love will hurt you.

How do you think you will respond the next time you get hurt?

Right!!

Now, what if we instead told our brain:

"Okay this person ripped my heart out - but that's only one person.I'm lovable and have many loving people in my life who are not outto hurt me. I know that the right people are coming into my life allthe time. If someone hurts me, I will forgive them and bless themon their way."

Words can be empowering.

I can
I love to
I want to
I will
I must
I am

We can reach a new level of living, if we feed ourselves empoweringwords and practice saying them until they become a habit.

I know first hand that it takes time.

And I also know that it's worth it.

Try it for a week.

Catch yourself saying, "I can't", when you don't really mean it and instead try, "I can", and see how you think and feel about yourself.

Remember, the words you use to empower yourselfwill have a lasting effect, only if you practice them and theybecome a habit (an acquired behavior pattern regularly followeduntil it has become almost involuntary).

Be proactive and not reactive - give yourself some goodwords.

Dream big and empower yourself! Believe you can and you will.

*SONAL JAIN*

*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT READINGS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

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Thursday, 4 March 2021

#March#horoscopes

#love #lotsoflove #relationship #couple #wedding #marriage #horoscope #march #born #sympathetic #helpful #pointoftime #ready #jump #cause #pisces #aries #signs #enthusiastic #loving #nature #generosity #rooted #apnijodi



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Wednesday, 3 March 2021

#happiness

*Happiness*

Happiness to some is accumulating wealth, getting good job, getting their desires fulfilled, earning name and fame. However, only those who are content with their life and feel happy in others happiness have really understood what happiness really is.

The joy which one gets from outward pleasures are temporary. Real happiness can be enjoyed from within. When your thoughts are pure, when you don't worry about petty things, then alone, you could enjoy real happiness.

"Happiness" is the state of mind. One may be happy when their relative or friend earns a good name of fame. On the other hand, the same person may or may not feel happy when someone else gets a good name or fame.

Great people are those who feel happy when others are happy.


*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT READINGS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

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Tuesday, 2 March 2021

#compatible

Marriage in India is not just between two individuals, but between two families. Find a partner who is compatible, loving and understanding towards your family, at Apnijodi.
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Thursday, 25 February 2021

#perfect partner

Not having a special someone and feeling lonely can have a negative impact on one's mental health. Find yourself a perfect partner at Apnijodi.
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Wednesday, 24 February 2021

#True love

True love is hard to find but there is someone out there looking for a prefect soulmate just like you. Seek your true love at Apnijodi.
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Tuesday, 23 February 2021

#soulmate

After marriage, your soulmate always has your back in every decision you make and they help you boost your self-confidence. Find your perfect partner at Apnijodi.
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Monday, 15 February 2021

#Healthy #Marriage

A healthy marriage makes you a more stable and rational individual with an alert sense of mind. Find your soulmate who can keep you happy and down-to-earth, at apnijodi.
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Saturday, 13 February 2021

#valentinesday

May you and your special someone be each other's Valentines every February for the rest of your lives. We wish you and all your loves ones a jubilant and loving Valentine's Day!
#love #lovequotes #loveoflife #lotsoflove #marriage #wedding #relationship #couple #Valentine #dayoflove #trust #passion #affection #cherish #special #February #lives #lovedonce #jubilant #loving #HappyValentinesDay #apnijodi



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Wednesday, 10 February 2021

#attitude

*Your attitude matters in your life*

Yes! Attitude matters a lot.

Carrying the right attitude can have a magical impact on your life. It is only the God who knows what is written on the next page of your life. It comes in front of you once it is written. You have no eraser to erase nor you can cut and rewrite. So prepared to confront every situation that comes in your life.

As William Shakespeare says

*There is nothing either good or bad but thinking made it so. It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.*

We are in a world where people criticise more than appreciate. They try to find faults in each and every task you do. They laugh when you fall and they jealous when you grow. Many a times you fall just before the finishing line. That is when they celebrate. You feel broken, tired….like the pieces of glass shattered on the floor.

*So what is in our hands ????*

*ATTITUDE!*

Your attitude towards these problems is your strength. It can not only the save you from the unwanted situations, but brings you out from the deep troubles. Positive attitude may not solve the problem but it can make a way to do so.

Right attitude at right time brings out the stronger shade of your personality.

It becomes easy for you to put forward your thoughts as you enforce the other person to listen to you. The way you speak, the words you use and your tone represent your attitude.

*Attitude plays an important role at your work place too.*

Work becomes easier if you have a positive attitude towards your profession.
Ask yourself if you are enjoying the work you are doing ?
Are you striving towards the goals of your company ?
Is your profession or salary is making your personal life better ?

Answers to these few questions will decide the attitude towards your job or profession.

*"Whatever happens, just keep smiling and lose yourself in Love"*

A smile on your face can put the opposite person into trouble, especially when they have tried to hurt you . They will get confused about their actions. Such an attitude will keep you at peace , without being affected. This smile will act as a shield.

*"Style is a reflection of your attitude and your personality"*

The attitude comes from not what you wear but how you carry yourself and present yourself in front of others.

Swami Vivekananda's iconic speech in Chicago is still in our ears. His words will always inspire the youth. He didn't bother what he was wearing as it was different from what those people used to wear. His attitude came out rightly through his words and his personality.

*"Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it"*.

Your attitude is what you own. You need not to look around and see how people are looking or solving the problems in their life. Wear your own attitude. You need not to borrow from others. Your life is your own. So be the master of your life. Walk with the right attitude and see how it works for you. You have to live for yourself , not for society.

*Remember what Zig Ziglar, the American author and motivational speaker said:*

*"It is your attitude, not your aptitude, that determines your altitude."*

There is lot to learn from this motivational speaker who always carried a positive attitude throughout the hurdles he faced in his life. His right attitude towards the life in the end gave him a success. He transformed his failures , loses and falls into the stairs to reach at the top. Failures are stepping stones to success.

*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT READINGS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

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Monday, 8 February 2021

#New #day new #week

A new day, a new week,

*Make a wish, at least you will know what your heart really wants.*

Remember, you are never given a wish without also given the power to make it come true.

Everything is created twice, first in your mind & then in the outside world.

Just as a builder first designs a building on paper before he starts to build it, you must create all that you desire in your minds eye.
If you do this, if you dream great dreams & good thoughts, forces which you never understood will be activated to bring you to your goals.

Make a wish, Dream great things, achieve them and stay blessed forever.

*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT READINGS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

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Saturday, 6 February 2021

The 5 Fighting Words You Need to Drop from Your Relationships

*The 5 Fighting Words You Need to Drop from Your Relationship*

Arguing is a part of every healthy relationship. You and your partner won't agree 100 percent of the time, and sometimes one or both of you will say or do something that upsets the other. When this happens and you have a fair fight, you both voice your issues, listen to each other, talk, disagree, talk some more, and come away feeling closer.

But many of us don't fight like that; we fight dirty. There are certain fighting words and fighting phrases we see couples use repeatedly to get a rise out of each other—or to shut the other down:

*1. "Nothing"*
People who fight dirty often do it because they're actually afraid of fighting, or don't want to take ownership of a fight. Instead of coming out and telling you they're upset or angry, a partner may radiate negative energy that begs you to ask, "What's wrong?" That's when your partner says the first fighting word: "Nothing."

Since it's obvious that something is wrong, "nothing" really means, "Of course I'm upset, but I'm afraid of bringing up anything that may start a fight, so I'm going to provoke you into starting one for me."

_The next time your partner says, "Nothing," counter with, "That response is only going to get us into a fight. When you're ready to talk about it, I'm here to listen."_

*2. "Whatever"*
Let's imagine that your partner has just thrown out the first fighting word, "Nothing," and instead of countering with, "When you're ready to talk about it, I'm here to listen," you say, "I can tell something is wrong." That's when your partner drops the second fighting word: "Whatever."

"Whatever" can cut to your core—it's dismissive and minimizes your feelings and concerns.

_Next time your partner says, "Whatever," don't take the bait and escalate the fight—which is often what a passive-aggressive partner wants. Instead, calmly say, "When you say that to me, I feel like you're not interested in how I feel or what I have to say—and that makes me feel bad."_

*3."Always"/"Never"*
"You're never on time." "I'm always cleaning up after you." "I always go to your work parties; you never go to mine."

"Always" and "never" are rarely factual. When you use phrases that include "always" or "never," you're telling a partner that they can't ever do something right and that you don't believe they can change. This leads your partner to feel resigned and not try.

Why should your partner help you clean when, "Please take out the trash," translates to them as, "I'd like it if you took out the trash, but I know you won't"? You can't expect your partner to adopt an "I'll-prove-you-wrong" attitude.

_Remove "always" and "never" from your relationship vocabulary. Instead, try "frequently" or "often," keep the focus on the present situation, and be specific: "It upset me when you were late today."_


*4. "You're just like your [father/mother/sister, etc.]"*
This is another example of something a passive-aggressive partner would say to bait you into starting the fight they'd like to have. Instead of, "I feel like you're nagging me," your partner will say, "You're just like your mother."

_Try to take a deep breath and simply respond, "It really upsets me when you compare me to my mother." Don't escalate—but let them know they've hurt you._

*5. "You're too sensitive"/"You take things too personally"*
"You're too sensitive" and "you take things too personally" imply that it's not OK for you be sensitive or feel slighted. These are fighting phrases, but they may also be cry-for-help phrases.

_Your partner may be trying to say—albeit in a very unhelpful way­—that they need to tell you something that may upset you but they're afraid of your reaction._

*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT READINGS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

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#relationship#apnijodi

A relationship is a two-way street. Each party must be determined to make the relationship work. Be willing to give your best in a relationship. Find this perfect match at Apnijodi.
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Thursday, 4 February 2021

#love #lotsoflove #loveoflife #relationship #wedding #couple #marriage #mesmerized #beauty #hillstation #stunning #sunrise #pristine #atmosphere #charm #wonderful #Darjeeling #destination #romance #romantic #experience #soulmate #perfect #match #apnijodi

Darjeeling is the perfect destination for a romantic rendezvous with your partner. Find your match to experience this wonderful trip with, at apnijodi. Find your soulmate at Apnijodi.

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Sunday, 31 January 2021

#apnijodi#kumaoni

The alarming yet fascinating wedding rituals are the unique peculiarities of Indians weddings. The Kumaoni wedding ritual will surely leave you astonished. #love #relationship #couple #wedding #marriage #kumaoni #rituals #flag #whiteflag #groom #redflag #bride #baarat #fascinating #unique #astonished #apnijodi



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Friday, 29 January 2021

#apnijodi#udaipur

Come experience the royalty of Rajasthan in the Venice of the East with your special someone. #love #lotsoflove #loveoflife #city #lakes #romance #majestic #aravalli #hills #Udaipur #destination #royal #experience #rajasthan #venice #special #perfect #partner #apnijodi



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#Choose what you #fight for

*Choose What You Fight for*

I once met a very successful man and I asked him to share his secret with me.

He smiled and said to me.........

I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.
I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me...

I stopped fighting over unnecessary issues with my spouse...

I stopped fighting for attention...

I stopped fighting to meet up with public expectation...

I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight...

*"And I started fighting for my vision, my dreams, my ideas and my destiny. Then I started winning big".*

That was the day I gave up on small fights.
Some fights are not worth your time.

Fight to make your visions and dreams come alive!

Fight the good fight of faith!

Fight for your destiny not for your ego!

Entrepreneurs shouldn't have time for unnecessary fights!

Visionaries don't cluster their mind with nonsense bickering!

*Always ask, what is this fight adding to my destiny, my goal, my progress?*

Choose what you fight for this year,
Compliments in advance to all the game changers.

*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT READINGS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

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Wednesday, 20 January 2021

#zero#infinite#rich

*How do you know you are rich?*


Amazing answer by Mr Awadhesh Singh, an ex student of IT-BHU (now IIT-BHU)

When I was doing my B Tech, there was a Professor Das Talukedar who used to teach us 'Mechanics'.

His lectures used to be very interesting since he had an interesting way to teach and explain the concepts.

One day, in the class, he asked the following questions,

1. What is ZERO?
2.What is INFINITY?
3. Can ZERO and INFINITY be same?

We all thought that we knew the answers and we replied as following,

ZERO means *nothing*
INFINITY means *a number greater than any countable number*
ZERO and INFINITY *are opposite and they can never be same*

He countered us by first talking about infinity and asked, 'How can there be any number which is greater than any countable number?'

We had no answers.

He then explained the concept of infinity in a very interesting way, which I remember even after more than 35 years.

He said that imagine that there is an illiterate shepherd who can count only upto 20.

Now, if the number of sheep he has less than 20 and you ask him how many sheep he has, he can tell you the precise number (like 3, 5 14 etc.). However, if the number is more than 20, he is likely to say "TOO MANY".

He then explained that in science infinity means 'too many' (and not uncountable) and in the same way zero means 'too few' (and not nothing)

As an example, he said that if we take the diameter of the Earth as compared to distance between Earth and Sun, the diameter of earth can be said to zero since it is too small.

However, when we compare the same diameter of earth with the size of a grain, diameter of earth can be said to be infinite.

Hence, he concluded that the same thing can be ZERO and INFINITE at the same time, depending on the context, or your matrix of comparison.

The relationship between richness and poverty is similar to the relationship between infinity and zero.

It all depends on the scale of comparison with your wants.

If your income is more than your wants, you are rich.
If your wants are more than your income, you are poor.

*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

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Sunday, 17 January 2021

Start #Influencing, Stop #Controlling

*Start Influencing, Stop Controlling*

Whenever we complain about someone not being our way,
we essentially imply that if we could control them, we could have guaranteed right results.

The truth is we cannot control anyone, but we can *influence* literally everyone.
*Control radiates dominance, influence radiates care.*

Do you live with or work with someone who uses control tactics to change you?????
Have you also met people who have inspired you to change, just by being who they are?

Let us accept that people will not be our way. Maybe they see nothing wrong with themselves, or they disagree with us, or they don't want to change. Exerting control or pressurizing people to change their habits or behaviors is never a solution.

If we do that, people repel us, leaving no chance for them to listen to us. Our sphere of control owing to position, seniority or role is limited. *But our sphere of influence through our personality is infinite.* When we consistently live the right way and when we consistently bless them instead of feeling irritated about them, our vibrations radiate to them. Our pure energy empowers and influences them to change.

Start connecting with people with acceptance and respect for who they are. Remind yourself daily – "I am a powerful being. People can be their way. I remain my way, the right way and influence them. Letting people be their way, I influence their habits and behaviors with my perfection and pure intention."

Look to control yourself and influence others. Bring your cheerful energy into every interaction. Listen to others, intuitively understand others, highlight their potential, give them a sense of purpose, guide them to achieve their goals. Being naturally motivated and wise, inspire everyone to bring out their best, appreciate and celebrate their success. Even if they fail to listen to you or fail to achieve, guide them and encourage them to try again. Lead by example. If someone is not your way, do not get disturbed. Empathize and influence them with your stability and unconditional acceptance.


*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Start #Influencing, Stop #Controlling*

*Start Influencing, Stop Controlling*

Whenever we complain about someone not being our way,
we essentially imply that if we could control them, we could have guaranteed right results.

The truth is we cannot control anyone, but we can *influence* literally everyone.
*Control radiates dominance, influence radiates care.*

Do you live with or work with someone who uses control tactics to change you?????
Have you also met people who have inspired you to change, just by being who they are?

Let us accept that people will not be our way. Maybe they see nothing wrong with themselves, or they disagree with us, or they don't want to change. Exerting control or pressurizing people to change their habits or behaviors is never a solution.

If we do that, people repel us, leaving no chance for them to listen to us. Our sphere of control owing to position, seniority or role is limited. *But our sphere of influence through our personality is infinite.* When we consistently live the right way and when we consistently bless them instead of feeling irritated about them, our vibrations radiate to them. Our pure energy empowers and influences them to change.

Start connecting with people with acceptance and respect for who they are. Remind yourself daily – "I am a powerful being. People can be their way. I remain my way, the right way and influence them. Letting people be their way, I influence their habits and behaviors with my perfection and pure intention."

Look to control yourself and influence others. Bring your cheerful energy into every interaction. Listen to others, intuitively understand others, highlight their potential, give them a sense of purpose, guide them to achieve their goals. Being naturally motivated and wise, inspire everyone to bring out their best, appreciate and celebrate their success. Even if they fail to listen to you or fail to achieve, guide them and encourage them to try again. Lead by example. If someone is not your way, do not get disturbed. Empathize and influence them with your stability and unconditional acceptance.


*SONAL JAIN*


*CELEBRITY ASTROLOGER || TAROT CARDS || NUMEROLOGIST || VASTU || MATRIMONIALS ||*

www.sonaljainvedic.com

Tuesday, 12 January 2021

#undivided #attention

Being a good listener is a quality that is treasured by everyone. Make your partner feel important by giving them your undivided attention.  #etiquette #tips #loveoflife #love #lotsoflove #lovequotes #relationship #couple #wedding #marriage #engagement #listener #quality #beauty #attention #apnijodi

Friday, 8 January 2021

#lifepartner #loveoflife #lotsoflove #love #lovequotes #relationship #couple #marriage #wedding #instalove #together #forever #beautiful #beaches #special #goa #partner #apnijodi

Everyone dreams of a fairytale story like Raj and Simran's...and your dreams can true. Find a match as perfect as their's on apnijodi.

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Tuesday, 5 January 2021

Look your best when you meet your partner at apnijodi with the help of these fruitful grooming tips that will make your skin exquisite. #love #instalove #fashion #style #beauty #instalike #makeup #grooming #tipfortheday #apnijodi #wedding #groomingshop...






Monday, 4 January 2021

Nervous about making a good first impression? A compliment goes a long way. Learn the proprieties that can make you seem suave and charming when you meet your match at apnijodi #lovequotes #love #loveoflife #couple #couplegoals #together #lotsoflove #e...





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Friday, 1 January 2021

#Facts of #marriage

#apnijodi.in #marriage #healthycouple #love  If 'marrriage' terrifies you because of the mere possibilty of an unhappy union then these copious keys will help you for a happy, thriving and flourishing marriage.



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