People who don't trust before the explanation,
will not trust even after the explanation.
Trust cannot be negotiated.
Lovely Morning
Tuesday 29 September 2015
Sunday 27 September 2015
#Trust
Be Careful Who You Trust.
If Someone Will Discuss OTHERS With You ,
They Will Certainly Discuss YOU With Others.
Lovely Morning.
If Someone Will Discuss OTHERS With You ,
They Will Certainly Discuss YOU With Others.
Lovely Morning.
Friday 25 September 2015
Thursday 24 September 2015
#Conundrum
Awesome conundrum
If the woman is always right, and a man is always wrong.
Then, if a man tells a woman that she's right.
Question
Is the man right or wrong ?????.........
If the woman is always right, and a man is always wrong.
Then, if a man tells a woman that she's right.
Question
Is the man right or wrong ?????.........
Wednesday 23 September 2015
#Jeweller
एक जौहरी के निधन के बाद उसका परिवार संकट में पड़ गया।
खाने के भी लाले पड़ गए।
एक दिन उसकी पत्नी ने अपने बेटे को नीलम का एक हार देकर कहा- 'बेटा, इसे अपने चाचा की दुकान पर ले जाओ।
कहना इसे बेचकर कुछ रुपये दे दें।
बेटा वह हार लेकर चाचा जी के पास गया।
चाचा ने हार को अच्छी तरह से देख परखकर कहा- बेटा, मां से कहना कि अभी बाजार
बहुत मंदा है।
थोड़ा रुककर बेचना, अच्छे दाम मिलेंगे।
उसे थोड़े से रुपये देकर कहा कि तुम कल से दुकान पर आकर बैठना।
अगले दिन से वह लड़का रोज दुकान पर जाने लगा और वहां हीरों रत्नो की परख का काम सीखने लगा।
एक दिन वह बड़ा पारखी बन गया।
लोग दूर-दूर से अपने हीरे की परख कराने आने लगे।
एक दिन उसके चाचा ने कहा, बेटा अपनी मां से वह हार लेकर आना और कहना कि अब बाजार बहुत तेज है,
उसके अच्छे दाम मिल जाएंगे।
मां से हार लेकर उसने परखा तो पाया कि वह तो नकली है।
वह उसे घर पर ही छोड़ कर दुकान लौट आया।
चाचा ने पूछा, हार नहीं लाए?
उसने कहा, वह तो नकली था।
तब चाचा ने कहा- जब तुम पहली बार हार लेकर थे, तब मैं उसे नकली बता देता तो तुम सोचते कि आज हम पर बुरा वक्त आया तो चाचा हमारी चीज को भी नकली बताने लगे।
आज जब तुम्हें खुद ज्ञान हो गया तो पता चल गया कि हार सचमुच नकली है।
--
सच यह है कि ज्ञान के बिना इस संसार में हम जो भी सोचते, देखते और जानते हैं, सब गलत है।
और ऐसे ही गलतफहमी का शिकार होकर रिश्ते बिगडते है।
Think and Live Long Relationship ज़रा सी रंजिश पर ,ना छोड़ किसी अपने का दामन.
ज़िंदगी बीत जाती है
अपनो को अपना बनाने में|
👏👏💐💐😌
खाने के भी लाले पड़ गए।
एक दिन उसकी पत्नी ने अपने बेटे को नीलम का एक हार देकर कहा- 'बेटा, इसे अपने चाचा की दुकान पर ले जाओ।
कहना इसे बेचकर कुछ रुपये दे दें।
बेटा वह हार लेकर चाचा जी के पास गया।
चाचा ने हार को अच्छी तरह से देख परखकर कहा- बेटा, मां से कहना कि अभी बाजार
बहुत मंदा है।
थोड़ा रुककर बेचना, अच्छे दाम मिलेंगे।
उसे थोड़े से रुपये देकर कहा कि तुम कल से दुकान पर आकर बैठना।
अगले दिन से वह लड़का रोज दुकान पर जाने लगा और वहां हीरों रत्नो की परख का काम सीखने लगा।
एक दिन वह बड़ा पारखी बन गया।
लोग दूर-दूर से अपने हीरे की परख कराने आने लगे।
एक दिन उसके चाचा ने कहा, बेटा अपनी मां से वह हार लेकर आना और कहना कि अब बाजार बहुत तेज है,
उसके अच्छे दाम मिल जाएंगे।
मां से हार लेकर उसने परखा तो पाया कि वह तो नकली है।
वह उसे घर पर ही छोड़ कर दुकान लौट आया।
चाचा ने पूछा, हार नहीं लाए?
उसने कहा, वह तो नकली था।
तब चाचा ने कहा- जब तुम पहली बार हार लेकर थे, तब मैं उसे नकली बता देता तो तुम सोचते कि आज हम पर बुरा वक्त आया तो चाचा हमारी चीज को भी नकली बताने लगे।
आज जब तुम्हें खुद ज्ञान हो गया तो पता चल गया कि हार सचमुच नकली है।
--
सच यह है कि ज्ञान के बिना इस संसार में हम जो भी सोचते, देखते और जानते हैं, सब गलत है।
और ऐसे ही गलतफहमी का शिकार होकर रिश्ते बिगडते है।
Think and Live Long Relationship ज़रा सी रंजिश पर ,ना छोड़ किसी अपने का दामन.
ज़िंदगी बीत जाती है
अपनो को अपना बनाने में|
👏👏💐💐😌
Tuesday 22 September 2015
#Opportunity
'Opportunity knocks but always softly;
👍
Temptation bangs the door non-stop.
Listen carefully,
✌
Act wisely!
👍
Temptation bangs the door non-stop.
Listen carefully,
✌
Act wisely!
Monday 21 September 2015
#Relationship
☀ Morning Thought ☀
"Treat your relations and your money in the same way ,
because they both are hard to make & easy to loose.".!!!
Good Morning
"Treat your relations and your money in the same way ,
because they both are hard to make & easy to loose.".!!!
Good Morning
Saturday 19 September 2015
#Story
Very interesting Story !!!!
A pretty and wealthy woman was serving a life sentence in prison.
Angry and resentful about her plight she had decided that she would rather die than to live another year in prison.
Over the years she had become good friends with one of the prison caretakers. His job, among others, was to bury those prisoners who died, in a graveyard which was just outside the prison walls.
When a prisoner died, the caretaker would ring a bell,
which was heard by everyone.
The caretaker would then
get the body and put it in a casket. Next, he would enter his office to fill out the death certificate before returning to the casket to nail the lid shut. Finally, he would put the casket on a wagon to take it to the graveyard and bury it.
Knowing this routine, the woman devised an escape plan and shared it with the caretaker:
The next time the bell rang, the woman would leave her cell and sneak into the dark room where the coffins were
kept. She would slip into the coffin with the dead body while the caretaker was filling out the death
certificate...When the care-taker returned, he would nail the lid shut and take the coffin outside the prison with the woman in the coffin along with the dead body.
He would then bury the coffin. The woman having pre-arranged with the caretaker for special vents in the coffin knew there
would be enough air for her to breathe until later in the evening when the caretaker would return to the graveyard under the cover of darkness, dig up the coffin, open it, and set her free. She would also carry along a small flashlight to cope with the darkness beneath until the hour of expected freedom.
The caretaker was reluctant to go along with this plan, but since he and the woman had become good friends over the years, and knowing that he stood to gain a lot from this pretty and wealthy woman, he more than agreed to do it.
The woman waited several weeks before someone in the prison died. She was asleep in her cell when she
heard the death bell ring. She got up and slowly walked down the hallway. She was nearly caught a couple of times. Her heart was beating fast. She opened the door to the darkened room where the coffins were kept. Quietly in the dark, she found the coffin that contained the dead body, carefully climbed into the coffin and pulled the lid shut to wait for the caretaker to come and nail the lid shut.
Soon she heard footsteps and the pounding of the
hammer and nails.
Even though she was very uncomfortable in the coffin with the dead body, she knew that with each nail she was one step closer to freedom.
The coffin was lifted onto the wagon and taken outside to the graveyard. She could feel the coffin being lowered into the ground. She didn't make a sound as the coffin hit the bottom of the grave with a thud.
Finally she heard the dirt dropping onto the top of
the wooden coffin, and she knew that it was only a matter of time and she would be free at last. After several minutes of absolute silence, she began to laugh...happily feeling free already and chanting she was free! she was free!
Feeling curious, she decided to light the flashlight to find out the identity of the dead prisoner beside her.
To her horror, she discovered that she was lying next
to the CARETAKER....her only hope to freedom.
Many people believe they have life all figured out...that they are well connected and can arrange and pre-arrange things to their favour... but sometimes it just doesn't turn out the way they planned it.
Think of a 'Plan B'!!!
"I don't know what
tomorrow holds, but I know WHO holds tomorrow."
The Happiest People Don't Have the Best of Everything, They Just Make The Best Of What They Have...But at times even the BEST FAILS...
Only one thing never fails...GOD.
A pretty and wealthy woman was serving a life sentence in prison.
Angry and resentful about her plight she had decided that she would rather die than to live another year in prison.
Over the years she had become good friends with one of the prison caretakers. His job, among others, was to bury those prisoners who died, in a graveyard which was just outside the prison walls.
When a prisoner died, the caretaker would ring a bell,
which was heard by everyone.
The caretaker would then
get the body and put it in a casket. Next, he would enter his office to fill out the death certificate before returning to the casket to nail the lid shut. Finally, he would put the casket on a wagon to take it to the graveyard and bury it.
Knowing this routine, the woman devised an escape plan and shared it with the caretaker:
The next time the bell rang, the woman would leave her cell and sneak into the dark room where the coffins were
kept. She would slip into the coffin with the dead body while the caretaker was filling out the death
certificate...When the care-taker returned, he would nail the lid shut and take the coffin outside the prison with the woman in the coffin along with the dead body.
He would then bury the coffin. The woman having pre-arranged with the caretaker for special vents in the coffin knew there
would be enough air for her to breathe until later in the evening when the caretaker would return to the graveyard under the cover of darkness, dig up the coffin, open it, and set her free. She would also carry along a small flashlight to cope with the darkness beneath until the hour of expected freedom.
The caretaker was reluctant to go along with this plan, but since he and the woman had become good friends over the years, and knowing that he stood to gain a lot from this pretty and wealthy woman, he more than agreed to do it.
The woman waited several weeks before someone in the prison died. She was asleep in her cell when she
heard the death bell ring. She got up and slowly walked down the hallway. She was nearly caught a couple of times. Her heart was beating fast. She opened the door to the darkened room where the coffins were kept. Quietly in the dark, she found the coffin that contained the dead body, carefully climbed into the coffin and pulled the lid shut to wait for the caretaker to come and nail the lid shut.
Soon she heard footsteps and the pounding of the
hammer and nails.
Even though she was very uncomfortable in the coffin with the dead body, she knew that with each nail she was one step closer to freedom.
The coffin was lifted onto the wagon and taken outside to the graveyard. She could feel the coffin being lowered into the ground. She didn't make a sound as the coffin hit the bottom of the grave with a thud.
Finally she heard the dirt dropping onto the top of
the wooden coffin, and she knew that it was only a matter of time and she would be free at last. After several minutes of absolute silence, she began to laugh...happily feeling free already and chanting she was free! she was free!
Feeling curious, she decided to light the flashlight to find out the identity of the dead prisoner beside her.
To her horror, she discovered that she was lying next
to the CARETAKER....her only hope to freedom.
Many people believe they have life all figured out...that they are well connected and can arrange and pre-arrange things to their favour... but sometimes it just doesn't turn out the way they planned it.
Think of a 'Plan B'!!!
"I don't know what
tomorrow holds, but I know WHO holds tomorrow."
The Happiest People Don't Have the Best of Everything, They Just Make The Best Of What They Have...But at times even the BEST FAILS...
Only one thing never fails...GOD.
Friday 18 September 2015
#Searching
You only need to change one thing to make this world a better place: your perspective.
True happiness comes from within yourself, not from someone else.
Stop searching, start living. . 😃
True happiness comes from within yourself, not from someone else.
Stop searching, start living. . 😃
Thursday 17 September 2015
#Virodh
🌹🙏🌹
समर्थन और विरोध केवल विचारों का होना चाहिये..
किसी व्यक्ति का नहीं..
क्योंकि अच्छा व्यक्ति भी गलत विचार रख सकता है..
और किसी बुरे व्यक्ति का भी कोई विचार सही हो सकता है..
'मत' भेद कभी भी 'मन' भेद नहीं बनने चाहिए ..
GOOD MORNING
समर्थन और विरोध केवल विचारों का होना चाहिये..
किसी व्यक्ति का नहीं..
क्योंकि अच्छा व्यक्ति भी गलत विचार रख सकता है..
और किसी बुरे व्यक्ति का भी कोई विचार सही हो सकता है..
'मत' भेद कभी भी 'मन' भेद नहीं बनने चाहिए ..
GOOD MORNING
Wednesday 16 September 2015
#Michhami Dukkadam
As we begin our spiritual introspection to reflect on the past year, We would like to apologize if our thoughts, words or deeds have knowingly or unknowingly offended anyone in any form, We conclude with a Jain prayer for forgiveness & ask for your pardon.
Khamemi Savve Jive
Savve Jive Khamantu Me
Mitti Me Savve Bhuesu
Veram Majaham Na Kenai
🙏🙏 !! Micchhami Dukkadam !! 🙏🙏
Rajive Sonal Kashish n Rishabhh jain
Khamemi Savve Jive
Savve Jive Khamantu Me
Mitti Me Savve Bhuesu
Veram Majaham Na Kenai
🙏🙏 !! Micchhami Dukkadam !! 🙏🙏
Rajive Sonal Kashish n Rishabhh jain
Tuesday 15 September 2015
#Passion
DETERMINATION to succeed
KINDLE your PASSION
LOVE what you do
MAKE your life count
NEVER say die
Explore OCEANS of opportunity
At many a times in spite of awareness there is a need for reminders 🌞
KINDLE your PASSION
LOVE what you do
MAKE your life count
NEVER say die
Explore OCEANS of opportunity
At many a times in spite of awareness there is a need for reminders 🌞
Sunday 13 September 2015
#Spiders web
A truly beautiful story :
During World War II, a soldier was separated from his unit on an island. The fighting had been intense, and in the smoke and the crossfire he had lost touch with his comrades.
Alone in the jungle, he could hear enemy soldiers coming in his direction. Scrambling for cover, he found his way up a high ridge to several small caves in the rock. Quickly he crawled inside one of the caves.
Although safe for the moment, he realised that once the enemy soldiers looking for him swept up the ridge, they would quickly search all the caves and would be killed.
As he waited, he prayed, "Lord, please spare my life. Whatever will happen, I love you and trust you. Amen." After praying, he lay quietly listening to the enemy begin to draw close.
He thought, "Well, I guess the Lord isn't going to help me out of this one." Then he saw a spider begin to build a web over the front of his cave. "Hah" he thought, "What I need is a brick wall and what the Lord has sent me is a spider web. God does have a sense of humour. "
As the enemy drew closer he watched from the darkness of his hide out and could see them searching one cave after another.
As they came to his, he got ready to make his last stand, but then he heard the leader of the soldiers say, "You may as well ignore looking in this cave....if he had entered here this web would be broken!" So they left and he was delivered!
To his amazement, however, after glancing in the direction of his cave, they moved on. Suddenly he realised that with the spider web over the entrance, his cave looked as if no one had entered for quite a while.
"Lord, forgive me," he prayed. "I had forgotten that in you a spider's web is stronger than a brick wall."
God's ways are not our ways, God's thoughts are not our thoughts.. He will neither leave us nor forsake us..
Let's trust in God always!!
(Sometimes a prayer doesn't change the situation.
But it changes our attitudes towards the situation
And gives us hope which changes our entire life.)
Stay Blessed .
During World War II, a soldier was separated from his unit on an island. The fighting had been intense, and in the smoke and the crossfire he had lost touch with his comrades.
Alone in the jungle, he could hear enemy soldiers coming in his direction. Scrambling for cover, he found his way up a high ridge to several small caves in the rock. Quickly he crawled inside one of the caves.
Although safe for the moment, he realised that once the enemy soldiers looking for him swept up the ridge, they would quickly search all the caves and would be killed.
As he waited, he prayed, "Lord, please spare my life. Whatever will happen, I love you and trust you. Amen." After praying, he lay quietly listening to the enemy begin to draw close.
He thought, "Well, I guess the Lord isn't going to help me out of this one." Then he saw a spider begin to build a web over the front of his cave. "Hah" he thought, "What I need is a brick wall and what the Lord has sent me is a spider web. God does have a sense of humour. "
As the enemy drew closer he watched from the darkness of his hide out and could see them searching one cave after another.
As they came to his, he got ready to make his last stand, but then he heard the leader of the soldiers say, "You may as well ignore looking in this cave....if he had entered here this web would be broken!" So they left and he was delivered!
To his amazement, however, after glancing in the direction of his cave, they moved on. Suddenly he realised that with the spider web over the entrance, his cave looked as if no one had entered for quite a while.
"Lord, forgive me," he prayed. "I had forgotten that in you a spider's web is stronger than a brick wall."
God's ways are not our ways, God's thoughts are not our thoughts.. He will neither leave us nor forsake us..
Let's trust in God always!!
(Sometimes a prayer doesn't change the situation.
But it changes our attitudes towards the situation
And gives us hope which changes our entire life.)
Stay Blessed .
#Size
जितना बडा प्लाट होता है उतना बडा बंगला नही होता
जितना बडा बंगला होता है उतना बडा दरवाजा नही होता
जितना बडा दरवाजा होता है उतना बडा ताला नही होता
जितना बडा ताला होता है उतनी बडी चाबी नही होती ।
परन्तु चाबी पर पुरे बंगले का आधार
होता है।
इसी तरह मानव के जीवन मे बंधन
और मुक्ति का आधार मन की चाबी पर ही निर्भर होता है।
है मानव....
तू सबकुछ कर पर किसी को परेशान मत कर। जो बात समझ न आऐ उस बात मे मत पड।
पैसे के अभाव मे जगत 1% दूखी है,
समझ के अभाव मे जगत 99% दूखी है।
Happy Sunday
जितना बडा बंगला होता है उतना बडा दरवाजा नही होता
जितना बडा दरवाजा होता है उतना बडा ताला नही होता
जितना बडा ताला होता है उतनी बडी चाबी नही होती ।
परन्तु चाबी पर पुरे बंगले का आधार
होता है।
इसी तरह मानव के जीवन मे बंधन
और मुक्ति का आधार मन की चाबी पर ही निर्भर होता है।
है मानव....
तू सबकुछ कर पर किसी को परेशान मत कर। जो बात समझ न आऐ उस बात मे मत पड।
पैसे के अभाव मे जगत 1% दूखी है,
समझ के अभाव मे जगत 99% दूखी है।
Happy Sunday
Friday 11 September 2015
Thursday 10 September 2015
#Helping hands foundation
Helping Hands Foundation is hosting a charity screening of the film KAATTI BATTI starring Imran Khan & Kangana Ranaut on Saturday night , 19th of Sept at PVR phoenix lower parel . Donor passes for the same are available @ ₹ 1100 each. All proceeds will go toTata Memorial Hospital/Impacct Foundation/HHF Accommodation project for the kids who are undergoing treatment for cancer.Please come& join hands with the stars of the film for this noble cause. Pease contact:9820129535
Wednesday 9 September 2015
#Lucky
Why do some people have all the Luck ?
By Professor Richard Wiseman, University of Hertfordshire.
Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaks they deserve?
A psychologist says he has discovered the answer.
Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some people are always in the right place at the right time, while others consistently experience ill fortune. I placed advertisements in national newspapers asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.
Hundreds of extraordinary men & women volunteered for my research & over the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives & had them take part in experiments.
The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight into the causes of their luck, their thoughts & behaviour are responsible for much of their good & bad fortune. Take the case of seemingly chance opportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities, whereas unlucky people do not.
I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to differences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both lucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through it & tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying : "Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $50."
This message took up half of the page & was written in type that was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it & the lucky people tended to spot it.
Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected. As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else. They go to parties'; intent on finding their perfect partner & so miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements & miss other types of jobs.
Lucky people are more relaxed & open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for. My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. They are skilled at creating & noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.
Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could be used to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend a month carrying out exercises designed to help them think & behave like a lucky person. Dramatic results ! These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities, listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to bad luck. One month later, the volunteers returned & described what had happened. The results were dramatic : 80% of people were now happier, more satisfied with their lives & perhaps most important of all, luckier.
The lucky people had become even luckier & the unlucky had become lucky. Finally, I had found the elusive "luck factor".
Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right
2) Be open to new experiences and breaking Ur normal routine
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
4) Visualize Urself being lucky before an important meeting or telephone call.
Have a Lucky day and work for it... "
The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems, but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect."
" There is a great difference between "worry" & "concern",
A worried person only sees the problem & a concerned person solves the problem..!"
TO BE LUCKY OR UNLUCKY - it is by practice and choice.
By Professor Richard Wiseman, University of Hertfordshire.
Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaks they deserve?
A psychologist says he has discovered the answer.
Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some people are always in the right place at the right time, while others consistently experience ill fortune. I placed advertisements in national newspapers asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.
Hundreds of extraordinary men & women volunteered for my research & over the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives & had them take part in experiments.
The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight into the causes of their luck, their thoughts & behaviour are responsible for much of their good & bad fortune. Take the case of seemingly chance opportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities, whereas unlucky people do not.
I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to differences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both lucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through it & tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying : "Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $50."
This message took up half of the page & was written in type that was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it & the lucky people tended to spot it.
Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected. As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else. They go to parties'; intent on finding their perfect partner & so miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements & miss other types of jobs.
Lucky people are more relaxed & open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for. My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. They are skilled at creating & noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.
Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could be used to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend a month carrying out exercises designed to help them think & behave like a lucky person. Dramatic results ! These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities, listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to bad luck. One month later, the volunteers returned & described what had happened. The results were dramatic : 80% of people were now happier, more satisfied with their lives & perhaps most important of all, luckier.
The lucky people had become even luckier & the unlucky had become lucky. Finally, I had found the elusive "luck factor".
Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right
2) Be open to new experiences and breaking Ur normal routine
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
4) Visualize Urself being lucky before an important meeting or telephone call.
Have a Lucky day and work for it... "
The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems, but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect."
" There is a great difference between "worry" & "concern",
A worried person only sees the problem & a concerned person solves the problem..!"
TO BE LUCKY OR UNLUCKY - it is by practice and choice.
Tuesday 8 September 2015
#Empathy
Empathy.
A female #humpback whale had become entangled in a spider web of crab traps and lines. She was weighted down by hundreds of pounds of traps that caused her to struggle to stay afloat. She also had hundreds of yards of line rope wrapped around her body, her tail, her torso, a line tugging in her mouth.
A fisherman spotted her just east of the #Faralon Islands (outside the Golden Gate) and radioed for help. Within a few hours, the rescue team arrived and determined that she was so badly off, the only way to save her was to dive in and untangle her…. a very dangerous proposition. One slap of the tail could kill a rescuer.
They worked for hours with curved knives and eventually freed her.
When she was free, the divers say she swam in what seemed like joyous circles. She then came back to each and every diver, one at a time, nudged them, and pushed gently, thanking them. Some said it was the most incredibly beautiful experience of their lives.
The guy who cut the rope out of her mouth says her eye was following him the whole time, and he will never be the same.
May you be so fortunate … To be surrounded by people who will help you get untangled from the things that are binding you.
And, may you always know the joy of giving and receiving gratitude.
A female #humpback whale had become entangled in a spider web of crab traps and lines. She was weighted down by hundreds of pounds of traps that caused her to struggle to stay afloat. She also had hundreds of yards of line rope wrapped around her body, her tail, her torso, a line tugging in her mouth.
A fisherman spotted her just east of the #Faralon Islands (outside the Golden Gate) and radioed for help. Within a few hours, the rescue team arrived and determined that she was so badly off, the only way to save her was to dive in and untangle her…. a very dangerous proposition. One slap of the tail could kill a rescuer.
They worked for hours with curved knives and eventually freed her.
When she was free, the divers say she swam in what seemed like joyous circles. She then came back to each and every diver, one at a time, nudged them, and pushed gently, thanking them. Some said it was the most incredibly beautiful experience of their lives.
The guy who cut the rope out of her mouth says her eye was following him the whole time, and he will never be the same.
May you be so fortunate … To be surrounded by people who will help you get untangled from the things that are binding you.
And, may you always know the joy of giving and receiving gratitude.
Monday 7 September 2015
#Two Horses
Two Horses !
Just up the road from my home is a field, with two horses in it. From a distance, each horse looks like any other horse.
But if you stop your car, or are walking by, you will notice something quite amazing...
Looking into the eyes of one horse will disclose that he is blind. His owner has chosen not to have him put down, but has made a good home for him. This alone is amazing. If you stand nearby and listen, you will hear the sound of a bell. Looking around for the source of the sound, you will see that it comes from the smaller horse in the field.
Attached to the horse's halter is a small bell. It lets the blind friend know where the other horse is, so he can follow. As you stand and watch these two friends, you'll see that the horse with the bell is always checking on the blind horse, and that the blind horse will listen for the bell and then slowly walk to where the other horse is, trusting that he will not be led astray.
When the horse with the bell returns to the shelter of the barn each evening, it stops occasionally and looks back, making sure that the blind friend isn't too far behind to hear the bell.
Like the owners of these two horses, God does not throw us away just because we are not perfect or because we have problems or challenges!
He watches over us and even brings others into our lives to help us when we are in need...
Sometimes we are the blind horse being guided by the little ringing bell of those who God places in our lives. Other times we are the guide horse, helping others to find their way...
Good friends are like that.. You may not always see them, but you know they are always there...
Please listen for my bell and I'll listen for yours, and remember...
Be kinder than necessary .
Everyone you meet is fighting some kind of a battle.
Live simply,
Love generously,
Care deeply,
Speak kindly...
FOR WE WALK BY FAITH AND NOT BY SIGHT !!!
Just up the road from my home is a field, with two horses in it. From a distance, each horse looks like any other horse.
But if you stop your car, or are walking by, you will notice something quite amazing...
Looking into the eyes of one horse will disclose that he is blind. His owner has chosen not to have him put down, but has made a good home for him. This alone is amazing. If you stand nearby and listen, you will hear the sound of a bell. Looking around for the source of the sound, you will see that it comes from the smaller horse in the field.
Attached to the horse's halter is a small bell. It lets the blind friend know where the other horse is, so he can follow. As you stand and watch these two friends, you'll see that the horse with the bell is always checking on the blind horse, and that the blind horse will listen for the bell and then slowly walk to where the other horse is, trusting that he will not be led astray.
When the horse with the bell returns to the shelter of the barn each evening, it stops occasionally and looks back, making sure that the blind friend isn't too far behind to hear the bell.
Like the owners of these two horses, God does not throw us away just because we are not perfect or because we have problems or challenges!
He watches over us and even brings others into our lives to help us when we are in need...
Sometimes we are the blind horse being guided by the little ringing bell of those who God places in our lives. Other times we are the guide horse, helping others to find their way...
Good friends are like that.. You may not always see them, but you know they are always there...
Please listen for my bell and I'll listen for yours, and remember...
Be kinder than necessary .
Everyone you meet is fighting some kind of a battle.
Live simply,
Love generously,
Care deeply,
Speak kindly...
FOR WE WALK BY FAITH AND NOT BY SIGHT !!!
Sunday 6 September 2015
#Chinese
When the ancient Chinese decided to live in peace, they made the great wall of China.
They thought no one could climb it due to its height.
During the first 100 years of its existence, the Chinese were invaded thrice. And everytime, the hordes of enemy infantry had no need of penetrating or climbing over the wall... because each time they bribed the guards and came through the doors.
The Chinese built the wall but forgot the character-building of the wall-guards.
Thus, the building of human character comes BEFORE building of anything else..
Thats what our Students need today.
Like one Orientalist said:
If you want to destroy the civilization of a nation there are 3 ways:
1. Destroy family structure.
2. Destroy education.
3. Lower their role models and references.
1. In order to destroy the family: undermine the role of Mother, so that she feels ashamed of being a housewife.
2. To destroy education: you should give no importance to Teacher, and lower his place in society so as that the students despise him.
3. To lower the role models: you should undermine the Scholars, doubt them untill no one listens to them or follows them.
For when a conscious mother disappears, a dedicated teacher disappears and there's a downfall of role models, WHO will teach the youngsters VALUES?
Have a thought!
Is our home also invaded?
They thought no one could climb it due to its height.
During the first 100 years of its existence, the Chinese were invaded thrice. And everytime, the hordes of enemy infantry had no need of penetrating or climbing over the wall... because each time they bribed the guards and came through the doors.
The Chinese built the wall but forgot the character-building of the wall-guards.
Thus, the building of human character comes BEFORE building of anything else..
Thats what our Students need today.
Like one Orientalist said:
If you want to destroy the civilization of a nation there are 3 ways:
1. Destroy family structure.
2. Destroy education.
3. Lower their role models and references.
1. In order to destroy the family: undermine the role of Mother, so that she feels ashamed of being a housewife.
2. To destroy education: you should give no importance to Teacher, and lower his place in society so as that the students despise him.
3. To lower the role models: you should undermine the Scholars, doubt them untill no one listens to them or follows them.
For when a conscious mother disappears, a dedicated teacher disappears and there's a downfall of role models, WHO will teach the youngsters VALUES?
Have a thought!
Is our home also invaded?
Saturday 5 September 2015
#Wife
"My wife, my wealth" Principle.
treating your women well has some very Tangible Benefits. According to a researcher women are like nature- they multiply what you give them, and give it back to you. They are taught- right early in life to treat their women right, irrespective he disclosed
"If you give a woman a small seed, after nine months, she will give you a bouncing baby" he started. in in a poetic way he continued...
If you give a woman love, she will adore you,
If you give a woman respect and honour, she will worship you,
If you give a woman time, she will give you a Life Time,
If you give a woman money, she will give you an investment.
On the contrary,
If you you give a woman slaps, life will slap you back
If you oppress your woman, society will oppress you
He then went ahead to give several examples of societies and communities that mistreat their women. He particularly pointed out at a world famous religion that oppresses its women- and showed me how they are at war with basically every one, and everywhere across the globe.
He then told me to open my eyes, and observe, with complete honesty anyone that treats his wife like trash, and follow how they end up. Or observe anyone that treats his wife like a queen and see how they end up.
He further reiterated, You all men will have to try it, after having lived on your ways for decades, just try this Principle for couple of years, you will be amazed to see your prosperity too.
Believe in "MY WIFE, MY WEALTH" Principle and Prosper.
👏👌👍🙏
treating your women well has some very Tangible Benefits. According to a researcher women are like nature- they multiply what you give them, and give it back to you. They are taught- right early in life to treat their women right, irrespective he disclosed
"If you give a woman a small seed, after nine months, she will give you a bouncing baby" he started. in in a poetic way he continued...
If you give a woman love, she will adore you,
If you give a woman respect and honour, she will worship you,
If you give a woman time, she will give you a Life Time,
If you give a woman money, she will give you an investment.
On the contrary,
If you you give a woman slaps, life will slap you back
If you oppress your woman, society will oppress you
He then went ahead to give several examples of societies and communities that mistreat their women. He particularly pointed out at a world famous religion that oppresses its women- and showed me how they are at war with basically every one, and everywhere across the globe.
He then told me to open my eyes, and observe, with complete honesty anyone that treats his wife like trash, and follow how they end up. Or observe anyone that treats his wife like a queen and see how they end up.
He further reiterated, You all men will have to try it, after having lived on your ways for decades, just try this Principle for couple of years, you will be amazed to see your prosperity too.
Believe in "MY WIFE, MY WEALTH" Principle and Prosper.
👏👌👍🙏
Thursday 3 September 2015
#Trust
People who
don't trust before
the explanation,
will not trust
even after the explanation.
Trust cannot be negotiated...
Good Morning !!!!😊💐
don't trust before
the explanation,
will not trust
even after the explanation.
Trust cannot be negotiated...
Good Morning !!!!😊💐
Wednesday 2 September 2015
#Respect
A recent Facebook post from Dr. Dyer's page is one of the best examples of his positive, uplifting message:
"I was preparing to speak at an I Can Do It conference and I decided to bring an orange on stage with me as a prop for my lecture. I opened a conversation with a bright young fellow of about twelve who was sitting in the front row.
"If I were to squeeze this orange as hard as I could, what would come out?" I asked him.
He looked at me like I was a little crazy and said, "Juice, of course."
"Do you think apple juice could come out of it?"
"No!" he laughed.
"What about grapefruit juice?"
"No!"
"What would come out of it?"
"Orange juice, of course."
"Why? Why when you squeeze an orange does orange juice come out?"
He may have been getting a little exasperated with me at this point.
"Well, it's an orange and that's what's inside."
I nodded. "Let's assume that this orange isn't an orange, but it's you. And someone squeezes you, puts pressure on you, says something you don't like, offends you. And out of you comes anger, hatred, bitterness, fear. Why? The answer, as our young friend has told us, is because that's what's inside."
It's one of the great lessons of life. What comes out when life squeezes you? When someone hurts or offends you? If anger, pain and fear come out of you, it's because that's what's inside. It doesn't matter who does the squeezing — your mother, your brother, your children, your boss, the government. If someone says something about you that you don't like, what comes out of you is what's inside. And what's inside is up to you, it's your choice.
When someone puts the pressure on you and out of you comes anything other than love, it's because that's what you've allowed to be inside. Once you take away all those negative things you don't want in your life and replace them with love, you'll find yourself living a highly functioning life.
Thanks, my young friend, and here's an orange for you!"
"I was preparing to speak at an I Can Do It conference and I decided to bring an orange on stage with me as a prop for my lecture. I opened a conversation with a bright young fellow of about twelve who was sitting in the front row.
"If I were to squeeze this orange as hard as I could, what would come out?" I asked him.
He looked at me like I was a little crazy and said, "Juice, of course."
"Do you think apple juice could come out of it?"
"No!" he laughed.
"What about grapefruit juice?"
"No!"
"What would come out of it?"
"Orange juice, of course."
"Why? Why when you squeeze an orange does orange juice come out?"
He may have been getting a little exasperated with me at this point.
"Well, it's an orange and that's what's inside."
I nodded. "Let's assume that this orange isn't an orange, but it's you. And someone squeezes you, puts pressure on you, says something you don't like, offends you. And out of you comes anger, hatred, bitterness, fear. Why? The answer, as our young friend has told us, is because that's what's inside."
It's one of the great lessons of life. What comes out when life squeezes you? When someone hurts or offends you? If anger, pain and fear come out of you, it's because that's what's inside. It doesn't matter who does the squeezing — your mother, your brother, your children, your boss, the government. If someone says something about you that you don't like, what comes out of you is what's inside. And what's inside is up to you, it's your choice.
When someone puts the pressure on you and out of you comes anything other than love, it's because that's what you've allowed to be inside. Once you take away all those negative things you don't want in your life and replace them with love, you'll find yourself living a highly functioning life.
Thanks, my young friend, and here's an orange for you!"
Tuesday 1 September 2015
#Respect
RESPECT is the most important element of our personality.
It is like an investment.
Whatever we give it to others,
It returns to us with profits. Gm
It is like an investment.
Whatever we give it to others,
It returns to us with profits. Gm
